Ask @ImmaBooBerry:

Do you think that if a guy who says he loves his gf but wants to keep her a secret because hes scared he'll be bullied for dating her, is ok ?

No. It's not a good feeling for either party. I've been the secret before and always made excuses for him because I cared abiut him. If he is to embarrassed to have you in public or have it known you are together then I think it would be better for your own self esteem to just leave that one behind. Let him know he's missing out but your light can't be stifled. If he really cared or loved you he would be excited to share you to the world!!! Proud even. He's more than likely hiding other women as well. From my experience.....

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