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I caught my 15 year old brother watching me change thru the window. I was almost naked and he admitted to have been there for a long time. I am an adult but I have a younger teenage sister who I am afraid he may be inappropriately with. I rebuked him. Should I tell my parents?

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this is a reprehensible act committed by your brother. It is completely unlawful to look at any naked woman besides your wife, and it is even worse to look at your own sister. This boy is extremely confused and needs help.
The best thing to do is inform your parents of the matter immediately. It is best to deal with the situation as soon as possible in order to avoid problems in the future. Inshallah by informing your parents, your brother can be disciplined appropriately.
You had mentioned that the brother may be doing inappropriate things with your younger sister. I would suggest that you openly discuss the issue with her and find out if something is going on. It is important to protect her from harm and take steps to ensure her safety.
It may be difficult to discuss these issues with your parents because of the sensitive nature of the matter. However, it is a very serious matter which must be addressed early on before it escalates into a full-fledged case of incest. May Allah make it easy for you and protect your family from evil and temptation.
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