like weather its a girl or a guy you only see the person first, not just their gender. you're probably just as nice to guys as you are to girls that you "flirt" with. it just comes off as flirting to everyone else because they're the opposite gender and you're straight
Oh okok I see. And yes I'm genuinely nice to most people regardless of gender. I mean, guy or girl, if youre an asshole I probably won't be peachy with you. And I suppose I'm maybe a bit nicer to girls because I hate hearing "all guys are the same and theyre all assholes", so I guess it's more so to open up girls' like that's minds as well as to give myself a reputation of being a nice guy