Do you tend to analyze people a lot ? Their body language, gestures, tone of their voice, facial expressions, etc. Why / why not ? If yes, then in what ways does it benefit you ?

This really is another thing that, for me personally, is circumstantial. So it's a yes and no.
As many of you know I find all humans fascinating, especially ones that are new and unfamiliar. As a result I love to get into the thick of it and explore their minds and personalities, try them on, take them off, move on to the next person. It's the way I operate. So analysing people's gestures and movements is naturally an essential part of this process because I need to be able to judge very quickly what I am dealing with, how to behave and how to interact. My whole persona from my lexicon to my mannerisms to my own body language and gestures shift with each analysis to appropriate the situation and the people within it. I do it constantly in new surrounding and with new people.It benefits me because I need identify a connection point, a point of sanctuary (should things turn sour or volatile) and to address how much I can gain and reciprocate from and with that person, or from the group of people.
However in a situation where for example I'm with my friends or family in a scenario that is casual, loving, fun even- then I have absolutely no reason to analyse my surroundings because I already know these things and essentially everything is neutralised until a situation comes along that upsets the balance i.e an argument of sorts etc.

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How many girls have you had sex with?

Now, as much as I am a very open and candid person for the most part, as this involves other people and also carries with it certain connotations and assumptions I'm not sure it's entirely appropriate for me to answer that question.
Perhaps with a little persuasion I might reveal that number but it would have to be with good reason.
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Have you ever liked someone older than you?

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Yes! When I was younger I was all about older girls, I always used to have crushes on girls 2 or 3 years older than me. Forever a Casanova ;) haha

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Let's say that you are in your room, doing whatever it is that you usually do on the Internet and suddenly, a naked woman enters your room. What's your first reaction ?

This is as intriguing as it is bizarre! But I will try to answer this is as best as I am capable...
I think that this is certainly a fantasy, it's a fabrication of mystery and wonder and lust and desire and therefore the primitive part of me wants to say that I would thrust this woman against a wall and have passionate sex with her. But as humans I think we are more inquisitive than we are spontaneous and so, as much as I would be captivated by the beauty of the female form, staring at me potently, I think my curiousity would take over and avow my intrigue and sexual desire but in a cautious manner. I'd have to ask her first what the meaning of all this was.
I'd certainly be shocked and intrigued but not intimidated.
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Is anyone ignoring you right now?

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Not that I'm aware of no...
Why do you know something I don't? haha
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What proves that having a soul is real?

I think that proof of the soul can be found in all forms of expression when any one person can communicate and then connect with another. When someone is deeply touched by another human being and they form a bond that ties them together, that is the soul. When one makes love with wild passion and awe and magnificence that is beautiful and majestic and divine- and that is the soul.

Any great quotes you have heard/seen recently?

Yes, my favourite one of today has actually been from a fellow ask.fm user: 'Simfonia' (whom I suggest you follow). She had this to say when asked whether she is a passionate person or not:
''Passionate, intense, driven and reckless. I am a slave to my own desires, I can't say "No" to the things that I want. I overindulge and over-consume, and most of the time, I do not sense the right moment to stop, so I keep going to extremes, ignoring the thin line between passion and obsession. Besides, those with a short temper are often the most passionate beings. Dramatic self-perception and view of the world also adds to it.''
This is a beautiful piece of writing and a perfect expression of pure emotion and personality and I found it to be deeply inspiring aswell as very relatable for myself. I honestly hang off her every word, she is magnificent and a truly great mind!

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Do you trust people easily ? If someone breaks your trust, do you give them another chance or simply stop trusting them and move on ? How can one prove to you that they are trustworthy ? What kind of actions/attitude would convince you to trust them ?

I have to be honest here and hold my hands up: I am the most forgiving person I know.
I just can't seem to hold on to grudges or hatred or contempt, I struggle so much to punish people when they hurt me because it's just not in my nature to. This is probably why I get hurt so much by people because no doubt some abuse this trait of mine.
But, I will forgive anyone if they hurt me, it's when you hurt somebody I love or care about that I become unforgiving.
I think somebody can prove their worth in regard to trust just by being consistent. I think if you want to put it in the simplest terms, then that is it. It all comes down to consistency. If someone is consistently on time and somebody accuses that individual of being late, you are likely to question this as you trust that the accusee's tardiness is well kept and that they maintain a consistency in good time-keeping. That's just one example.

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How do you cope with stress ? Are your methods effective ? Why / why not ?

Well my coping mechanisms have failed me quite substancially over the past few years as many of you will now know this has been due to several issues, most of which connected to depression.
Over the past week or so however I have been rekindling my senses and trying to reconnect with myself and my passions and with people and as part of this process am working towards trying to achieve victory over my demons.
I find that meditation is a very effective way of dealing with stress, particularly short term stress and immediate stress aswell as basic breathing exercises. I'm also lucky in the sense that I'm a naturally creative person and am, first and formeost, a writer. So really alot of the questions you have been sending in (along with many other people anonymous and not) have been a part of this process and that is why I am so grateful to you all!

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Not all religious scriptures were/are written by men.Research a bit will you?

I'm sorry you asked me specifically about 3 did you not? And when I used the term 'man' or 'men' I mean mankind as do the religious scriptures you talk about.
I think you're perhaps a little misguided and you seem to have an overwhelming sense of righteousness and that isn't very Godly. Respect the Earth and it's inhabitants despite their flaws and allow them to grow, don't stunt them with hatred or arrogance or pity.
Just think on it before sending me things in the heat of the moment and you might find your perspective will clear and you will have the freedom to be pure rather than blinded by negativity and loss of bearings.
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http://soundcloud.com/odessal/yeti-final Thoughts?

This is phenomenal, a real chillout vibe to it, ethereal almost. Beautiful work, thank you for sharing!
And for those of you reading this and whom follow me, give this a listen, it will blow your mind!
Keep creating my friend :)

You're right,there is a god.But your assumption that religion is man made is false.Look at the top three major monotheistic religions, they all have some similarity, i.e:same prophets, similar rules , etc.Now the only possible answer to that is that there is a degree of truth in what the preach.

No you are still misinterpreting what I am saying and missing my point.
Men wrote those books did they not? Religion is not faith, religion is not God, religion is just an established following of those things in order to create a community for those who are practicing worship.
I never said there is no truth in any of the religious texts, I said you'd be a fool to take them literally. We also have to recognise that those books have lost their relevance in some ways as time and civilisations have progressed and so we must reinterpret if we still wish to follow those texts. Those books are not rules, they are GUIDES there to help us find peace and love and spirituality so that we can connect with ourselves, with eachother and with God.

so, when can you tell you're flirting?

Believe me you will know when I am flirting, I am not coy and I am not shy when I am sexually attracted or romantically involved with someone. Like I always say, I wear my emotions and my thoughts on feelings like an outfit and it is who I am, if I want you I will tell you. What's the use in hiding it? Love and Sex are wonderful, beautiful, intense and passionate things and we should be able to express our love and lust and desire as we please with pride. You won't be successful every time, and you will have your heart broken but you'll also increase the chance of finding somebody you truly connect with and can build something with whether it's a relationship, a family, a life or just a bit of fun and some great memories.
Go for it, always! ;)

God never is or was a human,why would he take the face of his own creation? The mere assumption is ridiculous.You study religious texts? Well then you should understand that religion has been manipulated by people,distorted to control.There is truth in all religions and all of them have a link.

I believe I said that religion is man-made did I not? So the assumption that I take religious texts literally after having said that religion in itself was used to indoctrinate, control and intimidate people is void.
Religion was actually set up to GUIDE people and that's what these religious texts are, sadly many people are now under the illusion that these texts were meant to be taken literally, which simply is not plausible.
Do you think I believe that Noah took two of each animal across THE WHOLE PLANET and stored them in his boat before the flood? No. But I'd be taken it out of context if I believed that that is what the text was trying to convey. In the days of Noah the world was a much much smaller place and he would only have been aware of his immediate surroundings and maybe his neighboring nations, so to him he might well have been taking two of each animal in the whole entire world, because that is the world as he knew it. In actual fact he probably only took about 20 animals from within his town.
You see what I'm saying?
The only 'truth' is in our hearts and souls and it is within you to be beautiful and divine as a child of God. Religion has been compromised and abused but faith and love have not.

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Do you believe in god?

I believe in a higher power yes, however that can't be filtered down to a little man in the clouds with long hair and a beard you know. It could be an energy or a force or a superior being. But I am a very spiritual person and I do believe in a higher power and I study most religions and spiritual practices.
Religion is man-made and has been used to control and to dictate, however the Earth and it's inhabitants are here as the result of some higher being and whatever it is I believe it's in our nature to seek that out and connect with it on a spiritual level.

What does a person have to do for you to consider them stupid ?

I think stupidity derives from cowardice. The stupidest thing you can do is shy away from your sight, use your eyes, see the world and make yourself a part of it, connect!

do you always have to flirt with lots of girls??

No I don't and I'm unaware that that is something i have apparently been doing? I'm just a friendly person in general and I love human beings. It's all about communication, connection and collective progression my friend! :)

When is your next album being released?

Well I'm currently in the process of writing it and we still have the majority of it to be recorded so when I know more I'll update you and in the meantime you can check out some old tunes and some sneak previews of some new stuff on my Soundcloud (the link to which you can find in my 'bio'). Enjoy and thank you so much for the interest and kind words! x

You inspire me.

You inspire me! I'm not asking these questions, you are. So thank you and your gorgeous mind for letting me connect with all of these people. You honestly are a marvel.

Would you call yourself an intense person? What kind of characteristic traits do intense beings possess?

Yes. Every inch of me is passion, it is intensity, it is romance, it is love, it is spirituality and it is rock'n'roll! I am an artist, I am a creator and a mind oriented individidual, I wear my heart on my sleeve for all to see and I let people in to my nightmare and into my Eden. I am so driven by this in fact that every emotion and stirring of expression I have I can physically feel and I have no issue with communicating that.
I think intense people are impulsive yet thoughtful and considerate, I think we're passionate, I think we are daring and I think we are intensely vulnerable. But we are yours!

Do you consider yourself beautiful, physically attractive ? Why / why not ? What is your opinion on the popular belief that fashion models have perfect bodies ?

Okay this is actually very difficult for me. I believe, passionately, that there is beauty in ever soul, every mind and every heart and sometimes that resonates into it's physical form too. Everybody has it in them. But it's been a lifelong struggle for me to see that in myself. And so this is an uncomfortable subject for me. But I hope I satisfied with my answer. Moving onto models, I think it's a joke isn't it? A woman shouldn't be subjected to images of starving women and be told that that is what they need to be, besides skin and bone is not attractive anyhow. I love ALL women, don't get me wrong I find skinny girls attractive and beautiful too, but that shouldn't be the archetype of womanhood! Womanhood should be represented by ALL shapes and sizes and should be celebrated!
Do you know what, to all girls and women reading this: you ARE beautiful and be fucking proud of your body and your features! Own your body and own your mind and you will be truly beautiful! xxxx

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Do you prefer forcing people to do the things that you want them to do or do you prefer making people want to do the things that you want them to do ? Why ?

You can yourself be forced into situations where perhaps it's necessary to force someone to do something for their benefit, like a drug addict into care for example. But just as beauty and love, power comes from within also and you can never expect a person to be at their best if they don't have the desire to in their heart and soul. So of course I try not to force anyone to do anything that they don't want to. It's a losing battle.
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What is your reaction, when someone gets too attached to you ?

It can stifle me sure, it can suffocate any person, I hope not just me! But I try to give these people attention and love and sympathy because if you don't understand someone you must surely do your best not to shun them. I tend to assume responsibility for them and I take that very seriously. It has often-times been my downfall.
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You do have an artistic personality, I can tell from the way you speak about things. Are you a dreamer? Do you daydream a lot? Do you ever find yourself lost in your thoughts?

I'm actually a lucid dreamer. Do you know what that is? It's the ability to control your dreams and build landscapes and characters and interact with these things. When I am unable to seize control of a dream or when I'm unaware I'm dreaming I can't connect with my 'body' in my dreamstate, I float above it and cannot penetrate and control my own self which alerts me that I am in fact in a dream. As a result I am able to recall all of my dreams vividly as if having watched them on a television screen. I actually struggle to do anything but be lost in my thoughts. One of the issues I have personally is that of mental escapism, but not from reality per say, more from my own mind, from thought. If I could have plastic surgery on my mind then I would because I don't want it.

Ernest Hemingway once said, "Happiness in intelligent people is the rarest thing I know." Do you agree with this quote ? Why / why not ?

I do, and I'll tell you why. Intelligence gives you sight, and with sight we observe and we calculate and assume and then we summise and conclude. When we live in a world where racism and sexism and homophobia and war and oppression exist, wouldn't you be depressed? Ignorance is bliss goes the saying and it's bloody right aswell!
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