I have always stood up for you when other people have said things but you are actually a little mean sometimes.
Oh I know, but regardless could you give me an example of when I have been mean? Like, have I been directly mean to someone's face directly about them? Have I stood and slagged them off to their face? I generally don't unless I have severe reason to be pissed off at them. If that's not what you mean, I'm assuming you then mean bitching about people to my friends. In fairness, that's something everyone does, and it's better I did it to them than hold it in and snap at someone to their face. So, yeah.