Why do women always keep saying that 'looks doesn't matter' and they all want a 'nice guy' and at the end they only want to date 'hot guys' and reject cool guys because they're not attractive?
Initial attraction is important for any relationship to work, however it doesn't mean you'll have to rival a Calvin Klein model in the looks department. They just have to be attracted to SOMETHING - your sense of humor, your confidence, your heart, talent or passion about something in your life is a big attractant. I have been extremely, unbearably mind numbingly attracted to guys that my friends told me were "ugly". If you are being rejected for being "a nice guy" then you're either a) chasing the wrong girls and they are shallow, or b) you aren't as nice as you think.