Honestly, it's about personal preference. Me, I like being single because there is freedom. I do enjoy commitment though, I just haven't found the one I'll be committing my every waking second to pleasing, and I do please. (Very well at that.) I've been in far to many relationships that haven't worked out and now I just don't care to try anymore until I find someone that's willing to put even a quarter of effort in that I do. I had that once, and I kept giving 110% every day, after a few months she went from 100% to 50% to 25% to nothing. So I can't do that. Sorry for the rant.