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What if we are in love but our music tastes are completely different?

You should explore more of your likes and dislikes to make sure that you are actually compatible for a long term relationship if that is what you desire.

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My partner always takes my mother's side in an argument. Is she right all the time or is he just playing it safe?

If its 100% of the time then your partner is wanting to please your mother more than he should. Remind him who HIS partner really is.

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Is there any hope for a relationship based on sex? We haven't found any other common ground yet.

A relationship is all about compatibility. A successful long term relationship will be a combination of opposites with a higher percentage match of similarities.

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Is your app really THE true love calculator?

Our app empowers any individual to quantitatively determine compatibility between lovers or even friends. Its easy to use and very accurate. Download here: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/love-shopping-list/id536099778?mt=8

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Should I date a Facebook friend?

Be careful. It may not work out. Your relationship and its details could become very public if it ends poorly.

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I'm being stalked on twitter what should I do?

You may block them.

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What do I say to my future mother-in-law when she tells me I’m a slob? It really hurts.

This is a perfect time to use an "I" statement - an action, followed by an emotion, followed by a need. "When you criticize me, it makes me upset and angry. I need you to not criticize me." Besides that, where in the hell is your future husband, and why is he not standing up for you?

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When is the last time you told somone you love them?

Multiple times per day. You love them don't you?

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If you were to write a book what would it be about?

Actually, have authored many books. Check out the Love Shopping List book 1 on Amazon, eBay, and through bookstores worldwide. It is part of an ongoing series on relationships and love. http://bit.ly/BuyTheLSLBook

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What kind of place do you think is ideal for the first date? Why do you think so?

Do lunch. It casual with less expectations.

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How often do you change your mobile phone?

When it is no longer compatible to everyday apps. When it will no longer run the latest operating system and still have enough memory to function.

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What does it mean when a man looks at other women when he is with his girlfriend?

It may mean a lot of things. It may mean that he is not mature enough to control his visual instincts.

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Do you believe in "and they lived happily ever after"?

Not if one is buying a relationship lottery ticket.
Try our app "Love Shopping List". You'll be empowered to make better relationship choices.

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I just heard about “stealthing.” How do I make sure that doesn’t happen? That’s sick!

The only sure way is to abstain, which is not realistic for most people. You should have a serious discussion with any potential sexual partner. My opinion is that it is on a par with any other violation of a person. Regrettably, this goes back to the idea of male dominance. It is completely inexcusable and laws should reflect that!

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My gf just told me she’s “non binary”. WTF does that mean? Should I break up?

It just means she does not want to be identified as either male or female.

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How old do you have to be to get married? We live in the U.S. I hear it’s different everywhere.

It is different. Different states have different regulations regarding marriage. Some are much younger than other. I would definitely check your state regulations.

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I was wondering if your app helps those who are having relationship problems?

Our app, Love Shopping List, will help you sort out what you want and don't want. There are no guarantees, but at least you can get a reasonably objective idea about whether you really meet each other's needs. It empowers you to make better relationship choices. Try it out: http://bit.ly/PqCrtc

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My GF always wants me to apologize first in an argument. Should I?

Your relationship should not be about competitive scoring, it should be about wanting to make each other happy.

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Should I think about my partner all the time when we are apart?

Research shows the more often you think about your partner when you’re apart, the more in love you feel. It shouldn't have to be an effort.

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During this political climate, how is your love life?

More than ever, keep it light. Relationships are all about love aren't they?

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My bf keeps bugging me to get a boob job. IDK what to do. He doesn't bug me about anything else. Thoughts?

It is YOUR body. Only YOU get to decide what to do with it, and no one has a right to pressure you. If you are okay with yourself as is, DO NOT make changes just so he can display you like a trophy. If he persists, tell him you'd like for him to get a penis enlargement. See how that sits with him.

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Do you believe in love at first sight?

Yes!

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Me and this girl met online. We've gone out a couple of times and really hit it off well. Both our parents are divorced so we are both scared about moving forward. Are there steps we can follow to help out?

Our app, Love Shopping List, will help you sort out what you want and don't want. There are no guarantees, but at least you can get a reasonably objective idea about whether you really meet each other's needs. It empowers you to make better relationship choices.

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Me and my third cousin really like each other. We are both worried about genetics if we got married and have a family. What is considered distant enough to be safe?

There are no absolutes, but third cousins or beyond are considered "safe" with regards to genetics. There are not that many degrees of separation among all of us anyway.

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I have taken this girl out 5 times. She has never offered even once to pay. I really like her and thinks she's great except for this one thing. Am I being too picky? What do others do?

It all depends on the person. There are still the traditionalists that feel the man should pay for dates, but most people today feel that it's only reasonable to split things. That could be directly splitting the bill or just alternating who pays.

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About Dr. Andrew:

Dr. Andrew is a clinical psychologist who lectures nationally/internationally on various topics including relationships, behavioral management, learning disabilities, and sports psychology. He is the creator of the Love Shopping List mobile app. Unlock The Secret The Secret to Your Soulmate™

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