Our parents don’t agree on who should pay for what for our wedding. Both sets of parents are well off so money is not the issue. How should we handle it with my parents and his parents? It’s really getting nasty.
There are etiquette guidelines in both book form and online. Look for the most up-to-date and then present them to your parents. Also, let both sets of parents know about how much stress they are creating for the two of you. A little guilt goes a long way.