My grandfather says if I marry outside of our culture he will cut me out of the will. He’s rich. My bf is not of our culture but he is an incredible person. My parents are leaving it up to us (it’s my mom’s father). I don’t want to disrespect him, but I’m really upset. What do others do?

He is trying to control you with money. Actually, he is disrespecting you. You are going to have to choose between money and your relationship. Sometimes older stubborn people will come around, but don't count on it. If the two of you are or have the potential to be financially stable, I would say to go with your heart.

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Dr. Andrew is a clinical psychologist who lectures nationally/internationally on various topics including relationships, behavioral management, learning disabilities, and sports psychology. He is the creator of the Love Shopping List mobile app. Unlock The Secret The Secret to Your Soulmate™

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