I'm a confused male. I do everything I can think of to try to please my gf. I could do the same thing that made her happy two days ago but then it doesn't. I know guys joke about the "rules" but c'mon. Any suggestions as to how to be consistently successful?

There's a not-so-tongue-in-cheek expression among couples' therapists. Just get the guys to say "Yes, Dear," and that will resolve 95% of relationship problems. I know this pisses a lot of guys off with claims of "That's not fair," but do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy?

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