My wife has put on 70 pounds since we got married 3 years ago. She's only 5'4". I love her but I find myself looking at other women. I still want to be with her but I'm confused by my behavior. I have not acted on any impulses, but I have caught myself staring. What's going on?

You may not want to admit it, but it's clear that your wife is aesthetically displeasing to you, no matter how much you say you love her. You are looking at these other women because, to you, they are more visually pleasing. Great that you have not acted on your impulses, but, to put it simply, she turns you off. Time to get some professional help for both of you.

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