Me and my bf have both put on weight. We are working on it together. I don't like the idea that our circle makes comments about my weight gain but not his. My bf is very supportive of me but he doesn't say anything to the people that comment about me. Should he?

It's called fat-shaming, and it's done more to females than it is to males. That's unfair but true. The best revenge is success. I don't think either of you should say anything to anyone except to say, "I don't think your comments are helpful or respectful. Please, if you have nothing good to say, don't comment." This is a nice way of saying, "Shut the f--k up!"

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