We want my pastor and my bf's rabbi to officiate at our wedding. Both sets of parents say we have to choose. I've heard of lots of people doing this. Do we really have to choose?

The only choice you have to make is what the two of you want to do. As hard as it is, both sets of parents need to decide if they want a relationship with the two of you. The two of you should NOT be pressured in this way. It's a shame that such a wonderful event has to be tarnished by old ideas.

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