I'm really worried about my potential in-laws. My gf says to just ignore them but I hear that their shit will just come through if we get married. Are the ways to stop the train so we don't have to just copy her parents' relationship?
This is a perfect opportunity to get in some pre-marital couples' counseling. I've worked with many couples to help them avoid some of the pitfalls of family matters. Remember, you aren't just marrying her. You're marrying her family, too!!