We are a young couple. We are constantly being asked when we're going to start a family. WTF? Why do people think that's an ok question to ask? I feel like flipping them off most of the time but I don't.
I think that a lot of people see a young couple and think romantically about living the dream of a family. The best thing to do is smile politely and tell them just that you haven’t decided yet. Then don’t say another word.