My best friend married a wonderful woman. The three of us often did fun things together and sometimes I'd bring a date and sometimes not. We were just all good friends. Unfortunately he died several months ago from a rare disease. All of a sudden I'm having strong feelings about his wife.

First, you need to give her time and space to grieve. You are not double crossing your friend. Just don’t take advantage of his wife’s vulnerability. Being that the two of you are grieving the same loss, it only makes sense you feel closer to each other. Just let things unfold organically.

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