My gf's family is from a culture that has huge weddings, like 300-500. My parents want to contribute but say that it's too many people. Her parents want to split the wedding cost. This is all creating a huge mess and resentment. What do I do?
Ah, yes. Weddings!! They are supposed to be such a wonderful time. Either the two of you need to take control of what you want, or you need to tell both sets of parents to meet and figure it all out since it's creating too much stress.