My gf's family is from a culture that has huge weddings, like 300-500. My parents want to contribute but say that it's too many people. Her parents want to split the wedding cost. This is all creating a huge mess and resentment. What do I do?

Either the two of you can put your feet down, or you can tell both sets of parents that they need to talk to each other because it's putting too much stress on the two of you. You can also insist that each family pay for their own guests. That way your parents are not responsible for all their guests.

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