I was shocked to learn that my bf's cousin is a white nationalist. We saw him at a family event. Now I'm concerned that maybe his family is infected with this. It disgusts me. I don't want to ever see him again. How should I handle this?
You can explain to your bf that you do not ever want to be at any event where his cousin is present. You have the absolute right to set that boundary. You don't say if anyone else has made racist comments. It may just be this one person.