We are a gay couple with two sons. Our older son brought his girlfriend over for dinner. It was great. The problem is that her parents blew up about her coming to dinner after they found out we are gay. Our son is really upset. What do we say.
This truly is a job for a therapist who has a lot of experience with families with gay or lesbian parents. That therapist will be a great resource for you. Your son also needs help getting through this time.