Don't get involved in the gossip stuff. As long as your good friends know, you don't need to say anything. People will always gossip. Nothing you can do about that.
First, understand that the whole situation is not your fault. You can certainly apologize if you'd like to. That may make you feel better. Besides, you knew his father, so out of respect you can give condolences.
You can either just look at them and smile without saying a word, which drives people nuts, or you can directly say that you don't remember asking for their opinions. You need to let them know you are not rattled. Be strong.
Absolutely, you need to tell your mom. Let her fun interference for you. Do NOT go out with him.
It's spasms in the vagina. It can be very painful for anything, including tampons, going in. Yes, it's a real condition.
In certain professions, it's grounds to either be suspended or lose a license. It's DEFINITELY a professional violation. He needs to be reported. You need to look him in the eyes, tell him to back off, and get a different trainer.
As long as your coach treats you just like everyone else, concentrate on your performance. Yes, I can understand how it's a bit weird, but just stay focused.
This is not a relationship. This is friends with benefits. If you're wanting more, you'll have to move on. If not, just go with it.
Not necessarily. There are lots of reasons, not the least of which is that he's addicted. This is real. Don't shame him, and don't think that it's you. You may want to see a couples' therapist to help you with the situation.
You can certainly have that discussion after going out for awhile. This is 2018, and there's nothing wrong with splitting the bill or trading off who pays for each date. However, you should consider her financial situation ... and yours... before arriving at a solution.
No one will replace your mom. Unless your dad asks for your opinion, you should just support him in his decision-making. It's very hard to start dating again, so he'll have a learning curve. Don't pass judgement on something with which you're not familiar.
It's your house, so there's nothing wrong with telling them that when at your house they are expected to help clean up. Their parents are not doing them any favors by not having them do chores, including cleaning up.
You may want to provide your parents with educational material and research. The fact he's using edibles would indicate he's not a typical pothead. You can explain that, too. Weed has been shown to handle anxiety quite well.
You don't need to say anything. Why would you? You don't say anything when you go out with a heterosexual couple, so why not just think about it as just couples double dating?
Don't say a word. You don't need to. Be smart and make sure you use protection. You are not going to change his parents' minds. That's between your bf and them.
Approach it from a health standpoint. Let her know how much you care about her and that you are worried about a health concern. Be a gentleman.
You need to see a therapist. You will go through the stages of loss. The pain will begin to subside but not the loss of trust. If it's not handled properly, it could interfere with any future relationships.
This truly requires family therapy. First you're going to need to find a highly qualified therapist. You are being placed in a situation that you're not trained to handle, AND you are emotionally involved. Don't do this alone. If there's a chance to salvage the family, it will require a lot of work.
The best advice is to get some short term therapy to figure out your role in the problem. Clearly, you are sending out messages you're not aware of and to the wrong people. A good therapist will help you sort it all out.
You seem to have a good handle on your feelings, which is very good. Some professional help would go a long way to helping you sort more things out. That way your mind will even be clearer.
Here's a fun way to handle it. Instead of getting mad or saying anything, just look at them, don't say a word, and SMILE. It drives people nuts. The key is not to say anything. Works every time.
If you are reasonably close to your bro, yes, you should warn him. Usually the one cheated on is the last to know. Family is worth protecting.
Just relax and be yourself. Talk to any of your friends who've already been through it. They'll have the best advice. You are dating but with all the knowledge you didn't have when you dated young. Enjoy!
Ask her what she'd like you to do. Sometimes people need someone to advocate for them. She genuinely may not know how to handle it. Be gentle. Don't be a jerk handling it.