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My parents gave us $20K for our wedding. Now they're saying they should have a say so. We feel like giving them the money back. We don't get it. His family did the same and don't try to tell us how to do anything. Ideas please?

Either it was an unconditional gift, or it wasn't. Ask them. If it was unconditional, you should be able to do with it what you want. If it came with strings attached, give it back. Otherwise, you will fight this battle again.

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My gf had too much to drink at this party. I went upstairs to find her and found her in bed passed out with this other guy. They were fully clothes and she said nothing happened but IDK. I'm pissed. How should I handle this?

If they were fully dressed, and she says nothing happened, you're either going to have to believe her, or you're going to have to break it off. You will never really know. They may have both just passed out. The bigger issue is that she drank that much.

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My bf's daughter lives with her mom. He fully supports both of them. His daughter never calls, sends thank yous or anything else to acknowledge him. It hurts me to see him not be appreciated. This has gone on for the two years we've been together. Do I say something?

Unless it directly affects you, I would suggest just supporting his decisions. Otherwise, you might become a target.

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Me and my roommate just found out that we are dating the same girl. WTF? We've both been out with her twice. She had to know. We've been laughing about it. Do we just both keep dating her, stop dating her or what?

Wow! Probably not a good idea for you both to keep going out with her. You'll be putting your friendship at risk no matter how hard you try to avoid it.

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My bf is a really neat guy except he's homophobic. This REALLY bothers me. I've tried talking to him about this but he just blows me off. I'm not sure I can stay with him unless he changes. What should I do?

This is what I call an "A" list item. That means there are certain characteristics that are beyond your compromising. He's not leaving you with much choice if he continues his beliefs.

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I wanted to introduce my bf to my parents. I'm white and he's AA. I never mentioned this to them because I never even thought about it. They came into the restaurant and as soon as my dad saw him they turned around and left. I've tried calling but they won't answer. My bf has been really cool abo

Good for your bf. Unfortunately, you now understand things about your parents you never realized. Time for a REAL discussion with them.

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I went out with this guy who admitted he has kissed other guys but nothing else. Am I being too old fashioned to say I don't want to go out with him anymore? I have gay friends so that part doesn't bother me.

You're not being old fashioned. You're just being you. People are different. Some are more tolerant and some are less. If you're not comfortable, then don't do it.

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