I saw this vid (Caged Slave) a few days ago. I don't know Y, bt it turns me on like crazy! SMTHNG about being out of reach has apparently always turned me on, but the humiliation part doesn't seem healthy. https://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtube_gdata_player&v=g9JNRJWCjtk&has_verified=1&c
People are sexually aroused by a variety of things. Some like s&m or similar kind of stuff. But you are right, the humiliation part is not healthy. As long as it's just fantasies, it's one thing. Too many people see those videos as real life and think that it's the way it's supposed to be. That's not real life for most of us. If it's really upsetting to you, get a few sessions in with a therapist to find out why. That will also set your mind at ease.
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