This guy is getting a divorce (He showed me the papers from the filing). I told him I don't want to take our relationship further until the divorce is final. He says he's been living separately for over a year, so there's nothing in the way of us. I don't know what to do.
In any relationship, both partners need to be comfortable. If you are not comfortable until his divorce is final, then keep your boundaries so you won't regret it later. If he's really interested in you, he'll just have to wait. Don't ever be pressured. Always blows up later.