I am a 20 yo gay man. I keep getting hit on by women. I try to be polite without being overly harsh but it doesn’t seem to get the message across. What do others in my situation do
It's really no different than turning down any advances, gay or straight. Just don't take the bait and continue the conversation. Think about if you were being hit on by a guy you were not interested in. How would you handle that? People are people.