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What color are your eyes? 👀
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green.
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green.
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How much are you into gardening / keeping plants? 🌿🌷
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Not much as my cat tries to eat everything green within his reach, even those potentially toxic plants. x'D The only plants I have are sunflowers on my balcony. X'D
I bet my cat was a vegetarian in his former life. XD
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Not much as my cat tries to eat everything green within his reach, even those potentially toxic plants. x'D The only plants I have are sunflowers on my balcony. X'D
I bet my cat was a vegetarian in his former life. XD
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Just a message to say... I hope you have a fabulous day❤️
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And I hope you do too! Have a nice one! :3
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And I hope you do too! Have a nice one! :3
Have you encountered a lot of horrible people online?
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Some. x'D
There is some hope of course, too. But people are mad everywhere. Whether in real life or on the internet.
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Some. x'D
There is some hope of course, too. But people are mad everywhere. Whether in real life or on the internet.
How much do you care about avoiding Spoilers when it comes to movies and television shows?
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I study media sciences. In the courses I've visited so far, we discuss all types of media, therefore I needed to learn that there are no spoilers. x'D
Actually, I didn't care about those before I started studying but I can get why people get mad about it.
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I study media sciences. In the courses I've visited so far, we discuss all types of media, therefore I needed to learn that there are no spoilers. x'D
Actually, I didn't care about those before I started studying but I can get why people get mad about it.
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Why do some individuals make themselves look desperate by attempting to connect with those who are either ignoring them or have rejected them in the past (friendship/relationship wise)?
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People crave connection. We're social beings.
Sometimes it's hard to accept that the person we seek connection from does not want it equally.
I can understand that it's hard to let go of the thought, that there won't be a future with this person whether in friendship or relationship. But everyone has to learn to let go.
Let go of what wants to leave, and welcome what wants to stay. All types of relationships require a certain willingness to stick around and talk about any upcoming problems.
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People crave connection. We're social beings.
Sometimes it's hard to accept that the person we seek connection from does not want it equally.
I can understand that it's hard to let go of the thought, that there won't be a future with this person whether in friendship or relationship. But everyone has to learn to let go.
Let go of what wants to leave, and welcome what wants to stay. All types of relationships require a certain willingness to stick around and talk about any upcoming problems.
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Why do pretty people always get traumatized. We don't deserve it
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I don't know a single person who doesn't heal from something that happened to them in their past. It's not about 'pretty people' it's about people in general, who all know someone, who tormented them emotionally in some way.
Welcome to humankind, we suck a lot.
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I don't know a single person who doesn't heal from something that happened to them in their past. It's not about 'pretty people' it's about people in general, who all know someone, who tormented them emotionally in some way.
Welcome to humankind, we suck a lot.
So just because you overlook my questions it should mean everyone you talk to has a better saying then me?
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No, it simply means that everyone is here in their free time and gets to choose what they want to answer or not. I am here in my free time and I am not getting paid to answer everything I get. So I choose only questions that appeal to me and that I have something to say about. If you're sending me your opinion, which is fine, but I don't have something to say about it then I won't answer it.
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No, it simply means that everyone is here in their free time and gets to choose what they want to answer or not. I am here in my free time and I am not getting paid to answer everything I get. So I choose only questions that appeal to me and that I have something to say about. If you're sending me your opinion, which is fine, but I don't have something to say about it then I won't answer it.
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What is your opinion on Taylor Swift's music?
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I grew up listening to her music, of course, I like her (for her music) and I'm also going to attend to her ERA's Tour.
There is one thing that I am not fond of, which is her CO2 footprint in the world. But I also have no clue how to solve this problem that comes along with her fame, because she is also being stalked like no other celebrity, so she obviously can't use community transportation without being life-threatened.
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I grew up listening to her music, of course, I like her (for her music) and I'm also going to attend to her ERA's Tour.
There is one thing that I am not fond of, which is her CO2 footprint in the world. But I also have no clue how to solve this problem that comes along with her fame, because she is also being stalked like no other celebrity, so she obviously can't use community transportation without being life-threatened.
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what’s the best way to get over a situationship?
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Leave immediately. A person who cares about you would not think about putting you in a position where they can lose you. A person who doesn't care about you - would.
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Leave immediately. A person who cares about you would not think about putting you in a position where they can lose you. A person who doesn't care about you - would.
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What happened to make you realise a friend wasn't a true friend?
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That's a pretty painful process for me.
Because I need some time to reflect upon my friends' behaviour. I compare their behaviour to my idealized behaviour in friendship as well as past friendships gone bad and the reasons why they have gone bad and then I need to reflect on the following points:
⊗ are they busy with their life or do they give me excuses to not spend time together because they simply don't want it anymore and are too scared to tell me the truth?
⊗ do they have a hard time right now and need some support, whatever it may be or...did they just stop making an effort to keep the friendship alive? Because friendship is not a one-way road. Whenever people take their friends for granted I can guarantee you, it's about to become a toxic friendship.
⊗ if they can go weeks/months without talking to me, do they tell me why they can't be currently there for me? Because otherwise...what is a friendship even if people do not care about each other? You can't build a house on sand, you know?
⊗ are they authentic with me or do I need to second-guess everything that comes out of their mouths? If I catch them lying or finding out the truth by myself it is hard to restore that trust that I've once put in them.
⊗ are they supportive of me or do they try to make fun of me when other people are around - or worse behind my back? I don't keep people around who don't know how to be sensitive and appreciative of each other.
⊗ are they listening to me when I'm talking or do they listen to add their own drama and pain? Making everything a competition although I needed emotional support. ⊗ Can they be there for me when I am in an emotional critical condition? It's okay not to have always time for each other but it's not okay to let someone down at a critical moment/condition, especially when they are in a peaceful situation and are just not in the mood to help. That's just bad behaviour in my opinion.
⊗ are they trying to be friends with me because they need something of me (certain skills or emotional support) or are they friends with me because they genuinely care about me?
⊗ do they listen to me when I talk about problems in our friendship or do they try to minimise my feelings and turn the tables so that they try not to look like the ones who are at fault? Because when problems appear they do not because one person decides they are complete angels. It's because they can't stand the thought that they, too, did something wrong. It's always both people who probably miscommunicate in a friendship - and it's sad to see when they don't have the guts to admit that.
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That's a pretty painful process for me.
Because I need some time to reflect upon my friends' behaviour. I compare their behaviour to my idealized behaviour in friendship as well as past friendships gone bad and the reasons why they have gone bad and then I need to reflect on the following points:
⊗ are they busy with their life or do they give me excuses to not spend time together because they simply don't want it anymore and are too scared to tell me the truth?
⊗ do they have a hard time right now and need some support, whatever it may be or...did they just stop making an effort to keep the friendship alive? Because friendship is not a one-way road. Whenever people take their friends for granted I can guarantee you, it's about to become a toxic friendship.
⊗ if they can go weeks/months without talking to me, do they tell me why they can't be currently there for me? Because otherwise...what is a friendship even if people do not care about each other? You can't build a house on sand, you know?
⊗ are they authentic with me or do I need to second-guess everything that comes out of their mouths? If I catch them lying or finding out the truth by myself it is hard to restore that trust that I've once put in them.
⊗ are they supportive of me or do they try to make fun of me when other people are around - or worse behind my back? I don't keep people around who don't know how to be sensitive and appreciative of each other.
⊗ are they listening to me when I'm talking or do they listen to add their own drama and pain? Making everything a competition although I needed emotional support. ⊗ Can they be there for me when I am in an emotional critical condition? It's okay not to have always time for each other but it's not okay to let someone down at a critical moment/condition, especially when they are in a peaceful situation and are just not in the mood to help. That's just bad behaviour in my opinion.
⊗ are they trying to be friends with me because they need something of me (certain skills or emotional support) or are they friends with me because they genuinely care about me?
⊗ do they listen to me when I talk about problems in our friendship or do they try to minimise my feelings and turn the tables so that they try not to look like the ones who are at fault? Because when problems appear they do not because one person decides they are complete angels. It's because they can't stand the thought that they, too, did something wrong. It's always both people who probably miscommunicate in a friendship - and it's sad to see when they don't have the guts to admit that.
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❝With death staring you in the face, you truly understand what it means to be alive.❞
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ɪ ꜰᴇᴇʟ ᴀ ʟɪᴛᴛʟᴇ ʙɪᴛ ʟɪɢʜᴛᴇʀ
ᴡʜᴇɴ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ'ꜱ ʜᴇᴀᴠʏ ᴀꜱ ꜱᴛᴏɴᴇ
ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏʟᴏᴜʀꜱ ꜱʜɪɴᴇ ᴀ ʙɪᴛ ʙʀɪɢʜᴛᴇʀ
ᴡʜᴇɴ ɪ'ᴍ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ
ᴡʜᴇʀᴇᴠᴇʀ ᴡᴇ ɢᴏ, ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏʟᴅ ᴀɪɴ'ᴛ ꜱᴏ ᴄᴏʟᴅ
ᴀꜱ ʟᴏɴɢ ᴀꜱ ʏᴏᴜ'ʀᴇ ᴄʟᴏꜱᴇ, ɪ ᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ꜱʜᴏᴜʟᴅ ᴋɴᴏᴡ
ɪ ꜰᴇᴇʟ ᴀ ʟɪᴛᴛʟᴇ ʙɪᴛ ʟɪɢʜᴛᴇʀ
ᴡʜᴇɴ ɪ'ᴍ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ
— 5SOS | Lighter
ᴡʜᴇɴ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ'ꜱ ʜᴇᴀᴠʏ ᴀꜱ ꜱᴛᴏɴᴇ
ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏʟᴏᴜʀꜱ ꜱʜɪɴᴇ ᴀ ʙɪᴛ ʙʀɪɢʜᴛᴇʀ
ᴡʜᴇɴ ɪ'ᴍ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ
ᴡʜᴇʀᴇᴠᴇʀ ᴡᴇ ɢᴏ, ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏʟᴅ ᴀɪɴ'ᴛ ꜱᴏ ᴄᴏʟᴅ
ᴀꜱ ʟᴏɴɢ ᴀꜱ ʏᴏᴜ'ʀᴇ ᴄʟᴏꜱᴇ, ɪ ᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ꜱʜᴏᴜʟᴅ ᴋɴᴏᴡ
ɪ ꜰᴇᴇʟ ᴀ ʟɪᴛᴛʟᴇ ʙɪᴛ ʟɪɢʜᴛᴇʀ
ᴡʜᴇɴ ɪ'ᴍ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ
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When can we start dating?
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I'm not single and I intend to keep it that way.
So never.
But wish you luck and success with other people may it be here or in real life.
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I'm not single and I intend to keep it that way.
So never.
But wish you luck and success with other people may it be here or in real life.
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If someone contacts you from an account with no name or photo of themselves, would you consider that person to be an anon?
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It's a parasocial phenomenon that we believe if we know someone's face and pieces of their thoughts we might know them when we still don't know them at all. Online everyone is an anon. Even those people with real profile pictures (like me XD). Sometimes you can know a person in real life and still don't know them at all because we only let other people know what we want them to know. It's easier to create an idealized persona on the internet than in real life but yeah... we get to choose who we let in, in our weird little worlds, as Robin Williams said.
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It's a parasocial phenomenon that we believe if we know someone's face and pieces of their thoughts we might know them when we still don't know them at all. Online everyone is an anon. Even those people with real profile pictures (like me XD). Sometimes you can know a person in real life and still don't know them at all because we only let other people know what we want them to know. It's easier to create an idealized persona on the internet than in real life but yeah... we get to choose who we let in, in our weird little worlds, as Robin Williams said.
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“They still deserve dignity in death.”
“They didn’t believe you deserved any dignity,” he stated.
“They were wrong, but that doesn’t make this right,” I said.”
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“They didn’t believe you deserved any dignity,” he stated.
“They were wrong, but that doesn’t make this right,” I said.”
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Do you care if someone forgets your birthday?
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I am usually a little hurt when people close to me forget about it, but I've grown to accept that everyone has different priorities, those who care will show it one way or another.
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I am usually a little hurt when people close to me forget about it, but I've grown to accept that everyone has different priorities, those who care will show it one way or another.
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Share a thought.
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Don't watch Suzume if you're a cat mom/dad. That movie is disturbing.
The music was nice and the visuals too...but it has morally/story-wise not much to offer or look up to.
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Don't watch Suzume if you're a cat mom/dad. That movie is disturbing.
The music was nice and the visuals too...but it has morally/story-wise not much to offer or look up to.
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“C”ing.
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❝There is nothing wrong with letting the people who love you help you.❞
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❝So what if I lied only to achieve you? So what if I can't see any face other than yours? So what if I can't remember any name other than yours? So what if this vagabond loves you like crazy?❞
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