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What was that one thing which was once pleasing for you but isn't anymore?

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Fighting for people to stay in my life. I thought if I just show how much I care about it person it makes them feel it too. But turned out, that no matter how hard you want something to work, if the other person doesn't appreciate your efforts nothing in the world will make that person stay. And your efforts are pointless.
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How do you talk to people in a group? How do you prevent from being left out or talking too much? Is there a way to keep a balance?

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Most of the time I listen first to them, when I have something to say that might seem helpful for the person I add my thoughts to theirs. I tend to be silent at first because I analyse people before I invest myself in a friendship with them. It's because I am insecure about whom to let in my life.
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If someone gave you a blatantly recycled gift, how would you react?

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A pal of mine gifted me once without warning or everything on steam with a game. I asked him why because there was no particular reason he had to gift me with it, and then he just said he wants me to enjoy the game, he was enjoying and I was like "Thank you I appreciate it very much that you have gifted me with it" because I think that's just polite when people think of you. When a total stranger would gift me with something I would probably refuse to take it, since I can't know their intention but I would still say thank you and be polite (but still would not take the gift) If I get a gift from a pal, best friend or family then most of the time I accept it because I appreciate they good thought about it.
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What makes someone a betrayer in your eyes? What values makes someone unworthy of leadership? What traits do you despise seeing in others?

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ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴍᴀᴋᴇꜱ ꜱᴏᴍᴇᴏɴᴇ ᴀ ʙᴇᴛʀᴀʏᴇʀ ɪɴ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴇʏᴇꜱ?
Betraying can happen on many levels. Every person is able to betray another. And all betrayers for me have one thing in common. They create hope in other people, which they are not able to live up to. Probably their intentions with others are naive or well-minded, but they don't check up their words according to their abilities or amount of time. They might don't want to disappoint, but they create the exact opposite and cause trauma in some people, which they didn't even know.
ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴠᴀʟᴜᴇꜱ ᴍᴀᴋᴇꜱ ꜱᴏᴍᴇᴏɴᴇ ᴜɴᴡᴏʀᴛʜʏ ᴏꜰ ʟᴇᴀᴅᴇʀꜱʜɪᴘ?
The ones who fight for themselves no matter the price.
ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴛʀᴀɪᴛꜱ ᴅᴏ ʏᴏᴜ ᴅᴇꜱᴘɪꜱᴇ ꜱᴇᴇɪɴɢ ɪɴ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ?
⌊ narcissistic personality traits
⌊ people who need to lie constantly to feel somewhat powerful
⌊ people who don't act according to their words/ people who tell me about their moral codex and then do exactly those things they despise in others
⌊ people who love to suffer and to tell others about how bad they suffer, without trying to seek help, and when they get the help they refuse it because ...I don't why.
⌊ people who are rude with others, because they are short-tempered or have too big ego problems
⌊ people who use their words, influence or power to make other people feel small about themselves
⌊ people who criticize not to help someone to improve but to let them know what mistakes they have and how bad they are as a person

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What makes one worthy of your loyalty? What makes someone not only a good leader, but a great one? What qualities do you admire in others?

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"ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴍᴀᴋᴇꜱ ᴏɴᴇ ᴡᴏʀᴛʜʏ ᴏꜰ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʟᴏʏᴀʟᴛʏ?"
✏ this person cares about my wellbeing and shows it through actions or words, not...constantly... but once in a while.
✏ the person has a basic knowledge of communication and tries to communicate in a healthy manner with me, this person understands, that when I try to communicate my worries and fears about the friendship/relationship its not about me trying to fight their personality traits, it's about trying to find solutions to the problems
✏ the person respects my boundaries and is able to treat me with kindness or respect
✏ honesty
✏ giving me advice in my favour, not to hurt me, not to mock me, but so that can personally improve from this advice
"ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴍᴀᴋᴇꜱ ꜱᴏᴍᴇᴏɴᴇ ɴᴏᴛ ᴏɴʟʏ ᴀ ɢᴏᴏᴅ ʟᴇᴀᴅᴇʀ ʙᴜᴛ ᴀ ɢʀᴇᴀᴛ ᴏɴᴇ?"
Someone who thinks of people, animals and the environment equally (Thinking of politicians currently xD). Someone who is not a go-getter. Because go-getters tend to think of themselves and their own goals. And yes sometimes they are able to see current problems and try to work on them, as it will bring them the attention of certain groups. But on what purpose? So that other people acknowledge their work? That's okay. But we still need people with more empathy. And not just the ones who think of themselves, and how they get more power. Or just want to show off their abilities. A good leader thinks of everyone and not just personal gain. A good leader motivates/animates each other to connect and work together.
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✏ kindness
✏ creativity
✏ cleverness
✏ knowledge/skill in certain topics
✏ empathy
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✏ eloquence
✏ being able to fit with people
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What lessons do you think most people learn too late in life?

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How to tell someone directly from the heart, how much they truly mean. We always believe, that the other one magically feels what we think or feel about someone. But we truly are alone with our thoughts. We can't read minds. And sometimes people are gone too soon before we truly could bring ourselves to speak and open up to them.
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What is your definition of happiness? Can you show me what happiness is? 😁🤗🤔

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To everyone happiness is something different.
The things that tend to make me happy are not everyone's cup of tea.
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I'm happy when...
→ my friends or my family stand up for me, even when I'm not directly there to notice it. Because it makes me feel very secure with people. Like they watch over me and I will do the same in return.
→ I like rainy days because they make me feel calm, but I also enjoy sunny weather, because I can feel happiness slowly just from being outside. I really love to be in nature, because it sets my soul at peace, especially when I'm close to the ocean or to a night sky
→ I am happy when people remember me in small things or songs, and when they come to me and tell me about it
→ I enjoy doing all of my hobbies, they bring so much happiness into my life
→ I love to be alive in a world with so much creativity and fantasy and I love to be around people, whose hearts are passionate about the topics they love, I love to talk to people who are on fire for the things they really enjoy doing
→ every time I watch people being kind to each other I just feel happy myself that there are still good-hearted people out there who lookout to help other people
→ I am happy that I still have time to spend on good experiences
→ also, I love to learn about the things that I took personal interest in, I'm naturally curious

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Why is revenge bad even though many people are doing it?

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Because they think the feeling of revenge will fill up their inner void, that the pain has caused them. Usually, it goes straight away against the one who caused the pain. They tend to think about causing pain every second since it has happened. But the thing is...you give people too much power with this thought of revenge. I can understand the feeling but...I don't support it since I deserve to be happy and everyone who feels like, someone has hurt them to the core, deserves as well happiness. It's just not done with revenge. It's never a good idea to fight fire with fire.
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why do people hold grudges when it’s not good for their heart? 🥀

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Because words although often easily spoken, sometimes stay with us, even when the person who has spoken those to our face leaves. The ones who speak them forget about them, while the ones who listened to those, remember, and that's how words carve their way in hearts. But it's not only about those words, it's how much meaning we are willing to give a person in our heart. The more meaning we give out, the more potential they have to hurt us.
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Welchen Rat würdest du der jüngeren Jugend empfehlen ?

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Das hängt davon ab in welchem Lebensbereich der Rat erwünscht ist und ob ich mich dazu in der Lage sehe aus diesem Lebensbereich eine Weisheit zu entnehmen, die der Person etwas nützen würde.
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Do you think the secret to life is peace of mind?

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Nah (I mean don't get me wrong, peace of mind is great), I think how adaptable human become the more...well prepared they become for the future. It's all about how we handle/deal with change.
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Is showing up on time more important than working hard?

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Both are important but mark different characteristic traits.
Being on time is a sign of reliability while working hard is a sign of how determined, how ambitious you are.
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Are there afflictions that people realize yet romanticize? Why might that be?

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Toxic people get romanticised a lot.
It's actually so bad, that teenagers believe it's good to be a cold-hearted person. No, it's not. You add pain to other peoples life, for what? For being stone-cold and cool af? That's cruel. Romanticize empathy. Because that's really rare to find.
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How quickly do you jump to conclusions about people?

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Usually, people are puzzle pieces for me. The things I found out about them are not the complete picture. Although I'm often quite interested in looking for the complete picture. But it's rarely found :3 Except when you know a person since birth and even then some people are good at hiding parts of themselves, like the moon.
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Do you often talk to yourself? Does it happen during certain moments? Like if there are certain things you talk to yourself about 🗣

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When I watch or consume some media, such as movies, games, books etc. and a certain situation is causing anger or sadness or surprise in me, then I tend to speak with the characters as if they could hear me. X'D don't ask me why.
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Have you ever been truly frightened by a movie that was not marketed as a horror movie?

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Yes. I remember watching an Asian horror movie with my best friend, whom I still consider a soulmate. And I was re-watching this horror movie even, with her, and it was so terrifying for me, that I started crying and she was chuckling because she found it so funny, that I was so afraid of it. XD
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