What is a relationship deal breaker for you?
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➡ they shut down when you try to communicate in a healthy way.
➡ every idea you try to come up with sounds like an insult to them, they treat you like their enemy, not like their friend, they always try to defend themselves rather than admitting that you worry about them.
➡ they rarely show the same level of affection, what you give out seems natural to them,(they take you for granted) as if your whole time and affection belong to them anyways, while they remind you constantly that they have no time to spare to show you the same level of affection, they always have better things to do and even lie about it - but if some kind of 7th world wonder happens and they show you basic respect or kindness...they're like....waw. best of friends.
➡ you end up always feeling confused because they don't communicate properly, so you're constantly left with the feeling if you did something wrong and you can't guess what they want or need, because that's also something which is not communicated properly.
➡ you always feel like you're asking for too much, when in fact you just want to be treated with the basic respect for each other - and not like an option they can talk to when they feel bored.
➡ giving them chance after chance, because you cling to old feelings and memories, while nothing changes, rather the opposite.
➡ when you try to speak openly about your emotions they try to convince you like everything is your fault and have a perfect explanation for everything that cannot be their fault.
➡ being rude and disrespectful and afterwards telling you that you deserve such kind of behaviour to be treated with
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➡ they shut down when you try to communicate in a healthy way.
➡ every idea you try to come up with sounds like an insult to them, they treat you like their enemy, not like their friend, they always try to defend themselves rather than admitting that you worry about them.
➡ they rarely show the same level of affection, what you give out seems natural to them,(they take you for granted) as if your whole time and affection belong to them anyways, while they remind you constantly that they have no time to spare to show you the same level of affection, they always have better things to do and even lie about it - but if some kind of 7th world wonder happens and they show you basic respect or kindness...they're like....waw. best of friends.
➡ you end up always feeling confused because they don't communicate properly, so you're constantly left with the feeling if you did something wrong and you can't guess what they want or need, because that's also something which is not communicated properly.
➡ you always feel like you're asking for too much, when in fact you just want to be treated with the basic respect for each other - and not like an option they can talk to when they feel bored.
➡ giving them chance after chance, because you cling to old feelings and memories, while nothing changes, rather the opposite.
➡ when you try to speak openly about your emotions they try to convince you like everything is your fault and have a perfect explanation for everything that cannot be their fault.
➡ being rude and disrespectful and afterwards telling you that you deserve such kind of behaviour to be treated with
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