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Why are some people happy to criticise the lives of others, but are not prepared to help them?

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Maybe when they believe their critic is a form of realisation or insight to the one they criticize. X'D Which is kinda hypocritical but - it could be the case. Because someone who gets criticized might didn't realized it before. But if you seriously want to change you find the reason within yourself. I don't say critic can't be useful, because it can be, of course, if you don't make it look like an insult and your intuition is really for the other one to improve and not to blame them.

I feel you on that part, I was stressed too during my first day a uni but I do believe you'll get used to it 😉, yes I am okay thank you for asking 😁 been so busy lately but I cannot complain 😁and thank you naina, 🥰 sending you huggies back 👍🏼😱🤍

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I hope things will be more clearing and relaxing in these coming days for you, then. Especially on Christmas. Thank you for your kind words again and trying to understand me. :3 ♡
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+2 answers in: “hello naina 😊 what’s up? hope all is well there 💛”

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Why is the measure of someone else's happiness determined by the things he or she has?

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Because thats the easy way of 'happiness'. It's hard to create it on your own, so some people search for it in material things.

What would you say has made you the person you are today?

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→ my experiences
→ the people I choose to let in my life, the people I choose not to.
→ various influences for instance not only my environment but also in terms of art, people I idealized as role models, also people who were the exact opposite of that, taught me how I don't want to be
→ also every source I give the possibility to take influence on my mind

Why do we act like people with opposing views and opinions are bad people?

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Probably because your thoughts and views on certain topics feel so natural to you that when you get lazy and don't try to step out of your prefered opinions you might easily feel threatened by other points of views. But that's just a guess, to be honest.

How does running usually work in your dreams? Are you able to run at a "normal" speed in dreams? (In mine, I can never run fast; if I had to describe it, it feels forcefully slowed down. It's as if I'm trying to run through Jell-O.)

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I don't have troubles with running fast.
Also experienced flying and falling in dreams.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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❝I hope you see the importance of evidence now. Also, hopefully, you realize, things change depending on how you look at them. People, too. We never really know if our clients are guilty or innocent. All we can do is believe in them. And in order to believe in them, you have to believe in yourself.❞
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I hope you see the importance of evidence now Also hopefully you realize

How important is it to you that you capture "special moments" digitally?

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Really important. Because I really hate when a good moment passes by, and a photograph gives me at least the illusion to go back there and catch at least the glimpse of a feeling of that moment.

What can a friend do that will make you feel special?

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❥ Asking me how I feel, and really care, not just because we have nothing to talk - and they like to chitchat.
❥ Showing me things like songs, memes, or other art-oriented things, they care about. It shows me that they want me to know them a little better. And I care about what they care.
❥ Asking me to do something together, e.g. playing games on a switch or something like this. Because that shows me from time to time, that they want also spend time with me. x3
❥ Well, I always felt special when I didn't expect it but a friend stood up for me to protect me from being verbally attacked. I think it's not only brave but also honourable. Because it's not their cup of tea to do so. But still, some of my friends did. You have my total respect in this.
❥ taking time to talk to me about everything & nothing.
❥ being honest without being cruel. People often don't get it. But there is a thin line between honesty and cruelty. If I ask you for honesty - I don't mean you to put out your darkest, harshest thoughts about me. I ask you for clearification of a situation you wern't honest about in the first place and I want to find out every reason for lies behind it because I deeply care about the "why" behind lies. I ask for honesty - and not to be a d*ckhead. x'D

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What was the latest "unhealthy" thing that you ate? 🍟🍩🍕🍨🍔 Did you feel like it was worth it? 😋

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Asian food. Is one of my go-to's when it comes to fast food. And I know it's a sacrilege for some people, but I like it even more than Pizza.
And yes...of course, it was worth it. x'D I wouldn't eat it otherwise.

What is your major turnoff in a romantic relationship?

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﹄► lying about important matters
﹄► ignoring instead of listening to each other
﹄► trying to win arguments instead of trying to find a compromise
﹄► not showing interest in the thoughts of each other
﹄► not being able to admit own faults, trying to blame the other one instead
﹄► hiding
﹄► making the other one feel unsafe by judging the other one hardly just for the way the partner thinks about certain topics
﹄► blaming the partner in front of friends and family, making the partner feel unsafe, instead attacking them verbally as well so you feel a little more powerful in front of your friends and family
﹄► talking about your partner's problems without their knowledge while not discussing with them, if they do find this okay
﹄► guilt tripping
﹄► gaslighting/manipulating
etc.
etc.

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Have you ever had issues with a friends' partner (example: friends' partner is jealous of you talking to your friend)? If so, how did you handle it? — If ⋆NOT⋆, how do you think you might go about handling it?

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Yeah. With my best friend, I knew from 8th grade. We both were in a relationship at that time as well but his girlfriend didn't like me much, but she absolutely had no reason 'cause I loved my boyfriend, furthermore, we are still together. x'D
So...yeah. She was unreasonably jealous of me being friends with her partner. And when I found out I just talked to her in a reasonable, polite manner. That I wish the best for the both of them - that I only saw him as a best friend of mine and that I won't do anything to disrupt their relationship but also made clear that I won't stop be friends with him because she might be jealous or don't even like me. Clear communication is key. She stopped stressing my best friend at that time. But anyways the friendship kinda drifted apart sadly.
I still wish him the best and pray he's doing good.

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Can you share a random fact?

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I remember people in songs.
If they made me feel something I will remember them always when I listen to this specific song I connect to them.
Thats why I stopped listening to some songs. lol. xD

♪(´ε` )

Umbra_draconis’s Profile PhotoLayla
The heart beats
In such a frenzied rhythm.
The sound of heels
Echoes in time with it.

I’m leaving.
My cheeks are stained with mascara.
It will be more painful,
But in a different way it is impossible.

I’m nervous again, nervous, crying, nervous.
So, I’ll be crazy soon, I guess.
But when will it be easier? In winter or in summer?
I will mark this date in red.

You’re a drug, you’re a poison. It’s a vicious circle.
And with you I forgot who I am.
Forgive me for comparison, but you’re like fast food.
And I don’t eat that anymore.

Well,
Again, I keep a healthy lifestyle.
Take away your lies.
You were everything, but it turned out
That you’re not worth a brass farthing.
You yourself will understand everything,
But you will remain in the past.
I won’t call you again,
And you won’t come.

Non-stop thoughts
Bring to the top
My sorrow.
Again my heart is as if from cut glass.

This will soon be over.
I’m running for sports.
The past is spam.
Being who I am is my plan.

New style, new color and hair length.
Again cardio and weightlifting exercises.
Every day I save myself, running this race.
But there are knife wounds in my heart.

The envy is again around me. My friends gossip
Because no one else can do this.
You are not worth me, my friend, you are a traitor.
How could you? I’m amazed by you...

And I run ten laps again
With my last strength until cardiac arrest.
In order not to die and not to remember.
In order to fall asleep without fear of waking up.

God is my witness; I swear I won’t return to you.
You really wanted freedom therein.
You are poisonous but excessively sweet-tasting.
I am not allowed to consume sugar.
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ρ(ーoー)♪

Umbra_draconis’s Profile PhotoLayla
Boom woke me from my sleep
Boom woke me from a dream
Boom got me on my feet
Boom, think the birds who sing
I'm here to try anything
I'm done with the suffering
It's time to stand up and sing
For my life
I'm here now to try it all
I'm ready to take a fall
'Cause I'm an original
Why deny it?
And I won't risk my life being typical
I'ma be original, even when it's difficult
And I won't change myself when they tell me, "No"
I'ma be original, I'ma be original
Nah, I won't risk my life being typical
I'ma be original, even when it's difficult, oh
And I won't change myself when they tell me, "No"
I'ma be original, I'ma be original
Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
I'ma be original, I'ma be original
Boom, run toward the light
Boom, I'm ready to fight
Boom, the dear ones that live inside
Boom, I faced the darkest night
I'm here to try anything
I'm done with the suffering
It's time to stand up and sing
For my life
I'm here now to try it all
I'm ready to take a fall
'Cause I'm an original
Why deny it?
And I won't risk my life being typical
I'ma be original, even when it's difficult, ah
And I won't change myself when they tell me, "No"
I'ma be original, I'ma be original
Nah, I won't risk my life being typical
I'ma be original, even when it's difficult, whoa
And I won't change myself when they tell me, "No"
I'ma be original, I'ma be original
I'ma be original, I'ma be original
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why am I giving up? Complete disregard of my feelings

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I don't know?
...but I hope there is someone close to your or in your environment, to whom you can open up to about your feelings. I think it would help a lot to have someone whom you can talk to openly about everything.
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