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🍱 Do you like sushi? 🍣 Have you ever made it yourself at home? 🥠 I’m meeting with two friends today and we’re making sushi. ☺️🍚

Manu
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Yeah. I'm trash for sushi. <3
Do you like sushi  Have you ever made it yourself at home  Im meeting with two

What is the very last thing you do before you settle in to fall asleep at night?🌃

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Reading my handwriten notes for the next exam. So I remember it better on the next day.

Mention some worth-following users -only if you want- <33

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Okay. Here you go –
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I'll excuse myself if I forgot to mention someone whom I'm also following. Furthermore, everyone I'm following has a unique way of expressing themselves and their thoughts. They all deserve your follow :3
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Can you take the first step towards reconciliation, even if you don't feel guilty?

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I have no problems in making the first step but...it always depends on the matter how everything ended. If I feel that someone was rude, didn't care about my feelings and just wanted to win the argument - I don't come back to you no matter what. Because I can't take endless rounds of telling someone how to behave like a kind human being - if you're not able to do it - bye. that's it.

What is one thing you don't understand about yourself?

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Hmm. Let me think.
E.g.
⊗ – I love the view from high places. But I'm afraid of heights like sh*t.
⊗ – I hate people. But I make some exceptions for individuals.
⊗ – My I hate you - means I'm hurt please apologize so we can go on being friends again XD
⊗ – I love talking about my hobbies, philosophical topics in life and everything that catches my attention about life (astronomic, astrology, animals, art and so on...) but I'm deeply disturbed when unknown people try to talk with me, even when it's about my favourite topics
⊗ – I hate socializing - but when I'm angry, hell you don't wanna see those situations coming I don't care about me being an introvert when it comes to kicking asses verbally. XD
⊗ – Ah and the funniest thing. I hate talking to strangers. I avoid it to the core. But here I am. On ask.fm.
x'D I'm my own little hypocrite, okay?!
⊗ – I'm a very empathic person. I have problems to separate my own feelings from other people. But then again... I struggle hard with admitting when someone likes me more than a friend. My current partner had it very hard with me because we were friends for a long time before he just confessed to me because he knew if he wouldn't I would not know it either. XD

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What do you think is the best feeling in the world?

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...there are too many best feelings in the world. I couldn't just compare those.
∙∙∙ ⟩ coming home of a stressful day, getting hugged of a family member or a partner, getting a kiss on your forehead and someone tells you "I'm proud of you, you did well"
∙∙∙ ⟩ falling into a fresh-made bed and cuddling right into it
∙∙∙ ⟩ being close to the ocean, breathing salty cold air through your lungs and looking at the endless horizon feeling your problems flow away with the waves
∙∙∙ ⟩ looking at the starry night sky feeling so small and peaceful like your one with the whole universe
∙∙∙ ⟩ wandering trough woods and feeling like you are the greatest adventurers yourself
∙∙∙ ⟩ when you feel like sh*t and your soulmate (doesn't matter if its a best friend or a partner) sense that something is very wrong and then they offer you to talk although you just know they are busy and your feeling very grateful to met those people in a time like this
∙∙∙ ⟩ waking up and drinking a fresh brew coffee and feelin' like "hell, I'm going to do nothin' till I did not drink this up" xD
∙∙∙ ⟩ discovering music and then you find this one artist and you think: WHERE'VE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE?!?! or you think. "Hey...Defuq, I never thought someone could spy on my life so precisely"
∙∙∙ ⟩ playing a game and feeling like home. like...nearly anything bad could happen right now. you're in that world. you're safe. you're playing as that character and nothing of reality could harm you right now.
∙∙∙ ⟩ the same feeling as above just with a book, also the smells of a fresh book x3
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You see I could go on and on XD

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What’s a lie most people believe nowadays?

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I can imagine that "I'm good" and "I love you too" are lies that were used very often to either hide the pain or their cowardness when they stopped loving a person but didn't have the guts to tell otherwise.

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❝It is not our enemies that defeat us. It is our fear. Do not be afraid of the monsters, Miss Elizabeth. Make them afraid of you.❞
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It is not our enemies that defeat us It is our fear Do not be afraid of the

Late Night Thoughts..🖤

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Isn't it precious to find someone whom you can open up to without fearing they could use it possibly against you?
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I'm lucky I have such people still in my life. They are the best.

What would you want people to understand more about you?

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I'm not your type of human if you can't be honest with me.
And please don't confuse rudeness with honesty. There is always a way to say someone the truth without harming the person mentally.
I can't be good friends with people who prefer politeness and white lying over honesty.

Yes, I can. :) And thank you so much for accepting the conversation from a stranger. Yes, I have felt similar things. Worse with parents, but what you said about wanting to keep a friendship alive and putting down anger, the avoiding the topic... I do (or did?) have a friendship like that.

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I can only imagine, that it's hard when one of your parents is a narcissist because you're can't always stay away. It's harder with family. And I feel with you on this.
Have you found a way for yourself so it doesn't harm your mental stability too much? Or is it still a topic that you're not really sure about? About that friendship. This sounds not very healthy - What's the situation between you both? (if I may ask. I will not post it if you're uncomfortable with it)
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Yes, I can understand your pain. The worst part about people who hurt you and want to start fights on purpose is that they turn you into a version of yourself that you can't stand. Or respect. So, you start feeling guilty *and* defensive at the same time.

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It wasn't only that person. It was like I said - me as well.
But yes I did change, I started to swallow my anger because I didn't want to risk to lose that person. And that made me passive-aggressive. Because I wasn't able to discuss things clearly - because whenever I tried I was constantly lied to because whatever reason there was that person didn't want to talk and there is nothing one could do, and that as well hurt me deeply because I felt so close, I wanted to do anything in the world to make this friendship work.
But the way you talk about it - it seems like you have been through a similar experience? Feel free talking about it, if it makes your pain a little lighter on your shoulders.
Furthermore thanks for reaching out to me. Feels like you can understand my point of view.

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Do you trust someone until they demonstrate they can not be trusted or do you not trust anyone until they demonstrate they can be trusted?

Cameliee’s Profile PhotoCamelié.
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I used to be the first one. X'D
Now I trust people, that are not people, that fly in the sky in send light from afar. Wait...that's stars. I trust stars. At least they send light in dark times, okay? x'D

Yes, I think it really can. :) The one problem is what you mentioned - narcissists often make you feel like you are the narcissist, because you end up having to respond in some passive-aggressive way (other options ate shut down immediately). So the result is a never-ending spat.

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This is 1000000000% true.
At first, I only knew obligatory things about narcissism.
Only knew the ones who praise themselves a lot are a narcissist.
Actually there are hella different types of narcissists out there and I started with my research after I googled someone's behaviour who constantly hurt me. Then while I was finding out everything about it I had constant doubts about myself. I was going through more downs than ups while I had this relationship and of course, I know that it's always not only the narcissist who is toxic. But I myself became toxic. I could not deal with that kind of behaviour. My partner and my best friend said they didn't recognize me for a whole year while I was in contact with that person.
So yeah now I just try to get over it. Talk about it whenever I feel that I need to because I know something like that is not easy to get over with and I just want to live a happier life and furthermore therefor I need good reflection and people who give me stability.

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