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How can I stop negative thinking?

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by creating awareness of your thoughts.
Ask yourself - does it make me happy, are my thoughts leading me one step further to my goals/dreams/ wishes? No? Then you need to stop putting your energy into negative thinking. The same energy you use on your negative thoughts you could try and change them into something positive. E.g try to think of the things you have, or the experiences you made today, that made you happy. Even small events matter. Everything that makes your soul feel at ease.

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⚜ Hi! How has your day been? In a few sentences can you please sum up and share what have you learnt or discovered about yourself this 2019? Ta😊

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Quite stressful and like nearly every day in connection with a lot of pain in my knee. Thankfully one of my classmates drove me back home. =)
In 2019 I learned to love myself a little more and to let go of certain relationships that weren't meant for me. I was always thankful for what I got and achieved until now and even my hardships made me more aware of it: I am extremely thankful to be alive and to meet all those people who supported me, even on my bad days, or months, or years. They taught me yes I might be difficult in my personality sometimes, but not difficult to love and everyone who makes you feel like you would be hard to love is not meant to stay in your life for a long period.

What is a smell/sound/taste that you absolutely can't stand?

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I am a misophonist. So I wince by any loud noises. I can't stand them. Or when everyone is talking in a room. I struggle with filtering what I am able to hear. Because I have a good auditory skill it's all chaos for me when I am listening to a bunch of people sitting all in a small room - I can't blend the sounds of other people out, to e.g. listen to someone who is next to me I need to focus really hard on them because I usually hear everyone talking.

How would you explain your basic life philosophy?

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Your life is a gift. It would be a sin to waste it. So try and live it to the fullest without harming anyone or anything too much. You can live without destroying other individuals. Walk away from everyone and everything that no longer serves your growing. It's okay to outgrow of people you loved ones. You will find people who can truly appreciate you - until this time comes - learn to love yourself. Learn to be enough for yourself and never give up - because your a warrior and you deserve to be happy even when you have to work/fight for it.

Do you go to concerts/gigs? If so, what was the best (or worst!) artist you've ever seen live?

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Yeah. I love to go to concerts and support my favorite artists - BUT I am currently doing my A-Levels and working while learning for exams is nearly impossible for me. So concerts are sometimes too expensive for me.
But I do enjoy it very much when I have the time and I can afford it.
And sorry I don't remember bad artists. It's just like my memory about math after I had a lesson - I forget it completely as if I've never heard it. XD

How to deal with the elders who are impolite?

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Some deserve your kindness, some your ignorance. Just don't allow their emotions to control yours.

⚜ What's the wisest thing you've heard someone say? (Not read please. Meaning, it's either told you by someone you know or had conversation with) Thanks :)

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I always looked up to my brother. He's not an intellectual type. But an honest and still wise type of human. When I was young he told me "when someone is mean with you - don't just let it happen" That's how he activated my rebellious spirit. x'D I never let myself be punched by someone physically or verbally without punching back. I know it's not always about "fight fire with fire" but don't take no sh*t either. Don't let others let you treat poorly without letting them know that they did you wrong and that you won't allow them to continue.
Another conversation I had with him was about judging other people. When I was young I was quick with believing everything I heard. And then he told me something that changed my point of view. When we talked about one of his favorite musicians he told me, as long that there is no proof of someone's guilt you don't have to believe what people say. Because most often they are bored and just want something to talk about. It's not right. You never should judge someone based on people who love to badmouthing about someone.

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Why are people more often immersed in fictional worlds than the real world?

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Because stories inspire us and sometimes they try to teach us lessons, if we let them, they are useful to us in real life. The things we learn from fictional characters, who have their own problems are still kind of similar to our problems. They aren't out of nowhere. They are based on our personal struggles. But of course, we want to create a space, where we can be ourselves and comfort us with something that doesn't remind us of our daily routines and duties.

Who is your hero?

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✕ – The ones who've been hurt and still try to welcome people in their hearts.
✕ – The ones who have their own demons to fight but are willing to help their loved ones fighting against theirs.
✕ – The ones who don't have much to give, but try to support you with what they can.
✕ – The ones who are still haven't healed from their past but try to comfort others and make them smile.

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