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What are some of the most effective ways to fight depression?

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I think there is no guideline for the most effective way to fight depression. Because it depends individually on what helps you the most.
Generally, what may help is to talk about it with the closest of friends/family. If there is none seek help from an expert, just don't live with it believing that it's normal to feel like that. Because it isn't. And pain usually does not go away just because we try really hard to numb it, block it out and ignore it.
Furthermore, it's important to fight your own mind. Don't stay in your comfort zone of isolating yourself. Try to move out of it even if you do very small steps it's still better than living the life of a hermit. Because even the most introverted people need at least one soul who truly tries to understand them. Don't think there is none....we are 8 billion people. There is one, it's just possible that you tried very hard to go out of their way x'D

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What's the best museum you've been to? Tell a little bit about it! 🖼️🗿

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The Louvre was impressive.
Van Gogh Museum was aesthetically pleasing as well but the Louvre is just such a big museum you could spend a day at this place and still believe you did not see everything it has to offer. Its collection is broad and is not only about french culture.

What was the smallest ' last reason for your collapse?

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One of my professors had the Slytherin vibes.
Not like Snape (the good kind of Slytherin).
I won't go into detail but that man loves to be a pain to other people. I hope he heals someday. x'D

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Want to make more friends? Try this: Tell us what you like and find people with the same interests. Try this: + add more interests + add your interests

What's your favourite cereal or if you don't have cereal, what's your favourite thing to have for breakfast?

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I like bread with fried egg, butter, salad and with some pepper and I enjoy fruits for breakfast as well such as bananas, peaches or oranges. Sometimes I just have a cooked egg if I am not that hungry. :)

Does intelligence depends on the level of education? Can be non educated person intelligent or educated person non intelligent?

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No. 'cause intelligence does not only mean "rational" intelligence. There are other types of intelligence. Such as emotional intelligence (you are able to feel what others feel and therefore can read others' emotions by reading their vibes, mimics and gestures), musical intelligence (you are sensitive to all kinds of sounds), physical intelligence (you know how to keep your body healthy or you know how to train your body and improve yourself)

Have you ever been to a restaurant, coffee shop etc. so often that the staff started to recognize you? If so, tell a bit more! Like, how would they greet you and what did you usually order? 🍕☕

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Yes, I'm known at the local coffee shops. Especially at the English breakfast restaurants where they offer scones and all kinds of teas imported from England. I visit once a month to have English Breakfast and all sorts of black tea (but I prefer the sweeter ones)
Have you ever been to a restaurant coffee shop etc so often that the staff

How do you stop thinking about a person?

You recall how they treated you and tell yourself this is not what you deserve. Start to treat yourself as good as you would treat your closest of friends. Then try to put your new energy and time into people who accept you as you are, respect you and value your time. Lasting bonds are only created when both parts of the relationship put the same kind of effort into it. It becomes toxic if one gives more then the other and the other ones gets used to it.You stop thinking about it by first distance and then slowly buildung trust in yourself again. Realize that you deserve people around you that would want the best for you.

Hi. If you don't mind sharing, what is something you used to value? But couldn't care less anymore¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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Hm. My hope in humanity. XDDD Nowadays I just read one terrible thing after another and I dont even wonder. XD Kids k*ll each other for what ever absurd reason. Hogwarts legacy players hurting cats in-game because they think its funny. Humans are disappointing creatures all in all. Yes there are exceptions. But...all in all...nothing bad ever suprises me that much anymore because many of us feel like lost cases.

Is there a petty thing you consider a turn off, when making friends? Haha like if they are a really great person that you get along with, but they really like Justin beiber, and you find that cringe or something, so you don't wanna be friends haha. Or if they like football, and you hate it. Etc etc

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└ they are narcissists, manipulators, and chronic liars
└ they treat me like an option, which is okay if you are no close friends or probably just acquaintances, but if I am no special to you as a friend, then what the fluff I am doing with you? This is just manipulation. I choose people as friends because I feel they are safe, talented, creative, empathic...something like this, so if they are not able to make time and space for me in their life, then why call it even a friendship?
└ all in all, all my pet peeves for me come from disrespectful behaviour in a friendship, I don't judge people for what they like or don't like (except for when it's criminal, then I would judge them x'DDD)

If you play video games, what's your favorite boss battle? What makes it so good? 🎮😈

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Dragon Age.
Because it was able to make me bond with the characters and then after the emotional attachment was created of course my investment in winning against the bosses increased a lot.

Are there any films, shows, games or events coming up that you are excited about?

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Yeah, the new Diabolo game is coming up and I'm really excited about how it turns out.
Also, the same goes for the new John Wick movie that comes up in March, at least here in Germany, doesn't know if you guys can already watch it. Maybe we will soon see a new Sims 5 Game this year. Would be nice, tho. I hope they stop pushing the hundreds of DLCs. x'D That was always kind of annoying but I enjoy the designing part of the character and the apartment that the Sim lives in.

Have you heard that Instagram is offering a blue badge (verified) to everyone who will subscribe on a month-to-month basis? What are your thoughts about this?

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Many websites love to keep you on their payroll.
Streaming platforms like Netflix were the starters now everyone else wants a piece of that cake. Tbh most of them are useless and subscriptions like this are only for the ego-boost. What do you get from that badge except for the status to be a real person? I don't get it.

How do you feel about public speaking? What do you do to make sure your speech, presentation etc. is gonna go well? 🎤

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I hate everything about public speaking if I am the one giving the presentation. x'D
I am surprised that I don't mind singing in front of many people, in this case, I can really ignore people that are listening to me but...something is different if I have to speak in front of many people. I can't tell why I dislike it so much.

Is there a specific type of job that you know you would NEVER be suited for, or feel confident doing, even with a good amount of training? What is that job? Why do you feel you aren’t cut out for it? 🤔

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I am not suited for a teacher.
I simply can't deal with the focus of so many people that is on me while trying to present something. It makes me really nervous, so that is something I would not go for. Of course, I have respect for all the people who are able to teach something while being able to deal with the attention.

⚡HP-spree⚡ Which Hogwarts house do you belong to? What's your Patronus? What kind of wand do you have? (All things can be found out through quizzes taken at the Wizarding World website) 🦁🦡🦅🐍

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I'm a Gryffindor.
My Patronus is a Greyhound Dog, My wand would be lighter, like wood from a birch with a phoenix feather.

When you're sick, what's your philosophy around staying home? Like, how recovered do you need to be to carry on like normal? 🤒

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No job or responsibility can bring your health back.
We need to listen way more often to warning signs that our body sends out, or else someday we might be forced by our body to listen to it.
We just have this one life, so we should take care of ourselves, even before our responsibilities because those responsibilities can only be done well if we are feeling well enough to do them. Furthermore, your job might not care what happens to you if you are overworking yourself, once you are useless to your business you will definitely be replaced by them, but you are not only left to live with low health but probably also with some mental illness because you might put everyone else before your needs. That's not healthy.

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