My sister self harms, it gets me down so much, I feel like I can't do anything to help her, she has had counselling but it doesnt seem to help.. Do you have any advice?
of course, im so glad you understand your sister's position, its difficult for me to give you advise when i dont know your exact situation but just make home life as comfortable as possible for her, and as hard as it seems, cut down on the nasty sibling banter (not saying there is but if so..) because as much as your the older one and feel like it doesnt effect her, someone in that state of mind can take things to heart easily.. but just reasure her that you will always be there for her and before she lets the blade take over to come to you.. hope ive helped, good luck with the counseling, i know how difficult it can be for the family x