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Is it rude to tell a friend you have to hang up and you’re going to call them later, in the middle of them venting to you about their problems?

If you need to go, then it's not rude. Inconvenient maybe but not rude. As long as you explain you're unable to keep on the call in that moment and will call later then it's fine :)
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Is your sleep affected by anxiety and /or stress? I normally sleep well but when I’m anxious or stressed I can’t sleep, or If I do I wake up abruptly. My body be like “sleep? Nah fam you shall stay awake and ✨suffer✨”

My sleep is affected all the time haha. I have had insomnia since I was like hmm 13? Not sure. I do have anxiety disorder, so experience it a lot. However I've had many times I didn't have anxiety at all, and it was still very difficult to sleep. So it's def not just anxiety for me. Although that definitely exasperates it.
I've often wondered of adhd is the reason for my insomnia, as I'm often very physically tired, but my mind is very busy with thoughts (not necessarily bad ones just random ones. Like 'I wonder why squirrels have fluffy tails and not super whole fluffy bodies' or 'how do you learn this etc' and will need to Google it to know right then or I'll be plagued with the need to know, which will make it harder to sleep ha)
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How long after you start dating that you introduce your partner to your parents?

In the past I lived with my mum still, so any time a partner came to stay with me they inadvertently would meet my mum anyway haha. Even if they're meeting me for the first time as coming to the door or something. However now that I live alone I don't really have a reason to introduce them to my mum unless it's like long term dating and you're like sharing holidays with each other maybe.
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Do you think legal prostitution reduces s€xual assault?

I don't think you can reduce it too much tbh, SA is a massive problem in the world. It happens all the time to people even when they're not in prostitution, and just going about their regular lives.
However I imagine (don't know for sure really), that it being legal would at least give them more of an opportunity to get some security protection for it, or to report crimes more. As I'm sure a lot don't report it out of fear of being arrested for prostitution. And thus stay stuff in dangerous situations.

What makes you awesome?

*Fights the urg to self depricate and say all the reasons I'm not awesome*
. My creativity
. My understanding and open nature towards others.
. My drive to help people and make a difference.
That's all I can somewhat force myself to write without feeling weird. Haha
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Do you think your past break ups hurt you more or your ex?

Aren't they the same? Past break ups would now be exs? XD Am confuse

What is one useful skill that is underrated in your opinion? To me it's sewing! Many clothes were saved thanks to it.

Ooh yeah sewing is a good one. The amount of times I've had friends ask me if I can fix an item of clothing for them or advice on how to sew a hole etc is many.
I'd say another good skill is home improvement/repairs. Like basic things, how to drill proper fixtures, how to fix things that break around the house, how to seal gaps in walls, put up shelves etc. All really handy, and saves you having to rely on others when something goes wrong in your home.
As a person who lives alone, I really try and learn as much as I can on things, rather than ask people to do it for me (if I do have to, I'll ask them to show me how whilst doing it, so in future I can do it myself). Helps you be self sufficient at the best of times, and save money or time waiting for someone else to do it for you.
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My friend always talks about her problems, but when I talk about my problems and stuff he just ignores it or just puts “ok”. Why is she like this

I guess it depends on the person. Some are just a bit clueless when it comes to responding to people's problems so they avoid hearing about it so they don't have to think of a response haha.
Some are maybe a lil selfish, and don't think or care to ask how others are.
Some may just be going through a lot and only have the mental energy to vent, but not listen to others issues on top of it.
I think if they're your friend and they care about you truly, then maybe just have a talk with them, and express that you feel there is an imbalance in the friendship, and you would really appreciate if it could be more equal, where they support you back also.
They should (if a good friend) be understanding to this, and explain their side maybe. They could very well have their own reasons, and it be harmless.
If they're not a good friend they may be dismissive and give you the cold shoulder, if that is the case then maybe consider how genuine the friendship is, and part ways possibly.

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Why do some people think being sad is an “aesthetic “? Like they wallow in their sadness, they always have to let everyone know they’re sad, like being sad is their personality(obviously not talking about those with clinical depression or other mental illnesses).

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I think media has a habit of romanticising suffering (not all the time of course but I notice it a lot). And also social media. But I think it stems more from when someone is suffering, (having been in this line of thought myself in the past) that it can feel very consuming. And because it's so consuming, you have very little left to express other emotions and feelings. And it's not NICE being stuck in such a consuming headspace.
So romanticising it a bit or making it part of your vibe, can feel like taking control of it and owning it. Working with it and accepting it as a part of you.
However as we all know, although accepting our mental health and life situations can be good, in terms of not being in denial anymore. We do also need to take the added steps of WORKING on them, to try and he get better. Get professional help, talk to friends etc, getting support. So you can overcome the overwhelming feelings you're having rather than making it who you are.
So yeah, I don't think it's malicious, I think it's just a coping technique they take on to try and either give a cry for help, to vent how they feel so it's not so heavy or to make it seem more cool, as a way to 'reassure' themselves that it's okay to stay that way.

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Im learning sign language do you know any?

I learnt once how to say, hello my name is Louisa. However I'm sure I did it wrong haha. As I learnt it from a book, and I was also a kid. But I'd be interested in learning some more properly. Like learning yes, no, asking someone how they are etc at the very least.

Did you gain or lose weight after you left your parents house?

I think I gained a tiny bit back then, but I evened out again after a couple months.

aww, any plans ill send you happy birthday then 😉💖

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Aw thank you 😊. No plans yet! I didn't realise it was march already till I answered that question haha, so I've not given it too much thought yet.
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Do you speak french?

I used to know French really well back in school days, but it's gotten a bit hazy over the years since, as I've not used it much. I know basics sorta still.
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Happy March! What are you looking forward to this month? 🌼 - xoxo Tessa

Hmm it's my birthday this month, although I don't necessarily have anything planned for it yet. We will see!
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