do you mean looking for? and i want a guy that not only listens to me but likes to be their for me whenever i need him, i want someone that i can go see with joggers on and looking oh natural and they wont care, i also want someone that has seen me cry and knows what to do. i want a guy that doesnt want to go out with his friends all the time but snuggle on a sofa and love me. i want a guy that says to his friends "yeahh i love her " and if i ever have a problem i know that i always have him, i want him to always be honest and tell the truth and be on my side and trust me. thats my perfect guy! anyone out there would be much appreasiate