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Read your "pain" related answer. I don't think crying can lead you to stop believing good in people. You don't trust anymore and have limited number of people to care about, but isn't this the opposite of what pain teaches you? Without pain, you wouldn't know that your human.

ummm, thank you for reading it.. well, believe it or not dear, its just fiction.. My opinion about pain differs as "u don't need to suffer pain just to know that u are human"... living a happy life is more important... and when it comes to the point where u think i have limited the number of people i care about, the reason is, the world is full of people with different capabilities and mental levels.. everyone cant be trusted and everyone doesn't deserve your care.. sounds selfish but it helps u live a better life.. i take my time to know people before i actually start trusting them... may be that is the reason why that list is short... and another thing that i do is, I learn a lot of things through observations... there is a thing called empathy that helps u to know how it feels to be in different situations.. there is no need to suffer all by urself... without pain, I have realized that M a better human :)

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THAT NIGHT

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It was about 5 years ago, when I saw those tears… I had no words back then… No idea what to say… how to bring that beautiful smile back….I just kept looking at that face…
All that night, one thing kept circulating my mind… “Why do people cry? “. I was looking for a reason that caused those tears…. When I imagined that face, tears ran down my face.. It was love that resulted into tears… but then it popped up to me that it isn’t the only reason….
I looked for another reason and this time, I ended up with “Expectations”… when you start expecting from the people, u are actually inviting them to hurt you… but why they do that? Is it their fault? No, it isn’t. They didn’t ask you to make any expectations, and even if they did, they can’t be blamed… You are the one being dumb enough to trust them. They are people. The deadliest of animals living around you... they are not meant to be trusted… Well, expectations surely cause pain….
As soon as I came up with the thought that “Expectations cause pain”, the whole theory became so meaningless. Expectations cause pain; they aren’t the reason for tears. Are they? The answer was right there, it is pain that causes tears… I revised all those moments then when I cried…
Whenever I was punished by my parents, I was hurt and cried. Pain it was!
Whenever I had a fight, I wanted my friends to stand by me and they didn’t… I was hurt. Those were Expectations!
Whenever I saw someone close to me, crying, I had tears… It was Love…
Love, expectations, trust, care… They all result in pain and then that pain causes tears. That day, I figured out how to live. I stopped expecting. I don’t trust people. There is a very short list of people whom I really love and care about. This is because I realized that there are few things that cannot be eliminated. Few things that really matter….
Yes, I am strong…
Sometimes, thoughts are enough to change your life….

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