Bro you nailed it..you were totally right almost in every point..but you were really criticizing 'aurat' like girls criticize 'mard'..so it's not about gender..its about our expectations. The more we involve the we expect and the more we face, suffer and learn things.
Tysm for this support. Asal main baat ye hai k sab se zyada dukh umeedon se milte hain, aur mard sab se zyada umeedain shayed aurat se hi lagata hai, is waja se aurat usko sab se bara dukh de jati hai, isi tarhan aurat ki zindagi main hota hoga yaqeenan. Khair main aaj se kuch saal pahle main sab ki izzat karta tha, auraton samait. Lekin ab mazrat k sath main auraton ki izzat nahi karta. Izzat na karne se murad ye nahi k awazen kasta hun, dekhta rahta hun. Izzat na karne se murad k mere samne se agar larkiyan a jaen to unhen rasta nahi deta, agar kisi ka bag gir jae to uska bad utha kar nahi deta use, kisi larki k paas ja kar salam nahi karta lekin agar wo nazdeek ho to salam pahle khud karta hun. Khair main jo yahan tak pohancha hun ye bohat lambi kahani hai is waja se main yahan nahi bta sakta. Warna mujhe koi bura na samajhta. Mujhe pata hai k abhi bhi bohat se logon ko bura lagta hun. Lekin wohi baat a jati hai k kisi k liye nahi jeeta ab main, apne aap ko raazi kar k jeeta hun. Apne aap k liye sab kuch karta hun, kisi se nahi darta, log jo kuch marzi sochen mera kuch nahi bigar sakte. Bas apne Rab se darta hun, Allah k bad apne walid se darta hun, aur kisi se nahi darta...
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