Bruce Michael Backus

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I cheated on my husband with his coworker. Am I bad person?

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No. But your marriage is in peril and you’d be horrible to prolong your husbands humiliation. Two options:
1) If you feel guilty and want to try to save your marriage then admit it. Find a counselor if he stays, couples survive it all the time.
2) If you don’t feel guilt then don’t tell your husband for his sake. Divorce is hard enough without trauma of betrayal.
It’s a moral imperative for you to make a thoughtful decision quickly.

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