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My BF & I live together. He has a son with an ex. I found texts from him to her calling her beautiful. I have found other texts in the past but never confronted him. I feel disrespected.

Sounds like there are underlying trust issues. Why do you feel the need to go thru his phone? What's the nature of his relationship with his son? Sometimes men do stuff thinking they can make a better impact if they butter the BM up when they feel like she has the upper hand. You need to find out more about his feelings about his son... That's more than likely where this is stemming from unless you have reason to believe there's something else going on. Ask questions first, take time to assess the situation.

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Why do women worry more than men do? Its like they don't even care.

Men and women worry about different things. Women are taught to value the presence of having a man so we worry about them more. Men are taught to have a position in the world before locking down a woman so they worry about things like money, their livelihood. Getting a woman is not a problem for most good looking men. The ratios are in their favor. They won't worry about you until their other needs are met first.

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I had a crush on this girl. She didnt feel same for me but still respected me. Later on after a year maybe of tryin to get over her, i decided i couldnt and started stalking on social media. I've been doing it since, and dont like it going no where. What should i do? Leave it? How?

She's already shown you how she feels. It's been a year and there's been no change, so I think it's time to move on. Unfollow her on social and let it go. Stalking her in social is only making matters worse.
There's someone out there for you. It's time to invest in finding her.

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