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I went out with this boy for 2 mths I feel in love him now it is over& it's been 4 mths & I still love him?!&his already moved on but I can't let go&sometimes he acts like he still has feelings&asks if I want to stay over his, I don't know what to do help me I love him, but his a player?!

Right. don't follow him, don't show him you love him. he clearly cares if you still like him or not,meaning he still probably has slight feelings for you even though he doesn't show it. don't go round his house or talk to him like you're bestfriends because if he has chosen to move on so fast and now he's leading you on ? if he is single and starts to be friendly yeah be friendly back but not while he has a girlfriend because then he's being very cheeky going behind her back. everything happens for a reason, that's why you broke up. if one day he decides to want you again, give him that one more chance ? but after that , don't give your heart away for him so easily, he needs to know you're not a choice when he's lonely x

Sorry this might sound a bit rude or wierd but how to you pull off a boy? I am on saturday but dont have the slightest clue

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Erm so hey there I really like a guy called jack Eldridge he's so hot I fall in love with everything he does and says but he likes all the popular girls in our school, I get well jealous cause he'll only hang around with like, jade, elishia, britney, holly, megan, keeleigh, Sarah and those people:(

Hello, tbqh i think you should really make this boy realize you're there. Make him notice you. do little things that he'll notice. Glance at him, but not for too long, also walk confidently past him so he realizes you're not afraid and he'll find it more attractive. What's your name sweetie? Hope it goes well, need more help, just ask another question.

I love this boy, we have been out before, parents dont agree he likes me too, i love him so much have for almost a year now-,- any advice?:) thanks

Okay...
this is kinda hard!
well tbh, i think you should really just go with your heart. Try find out if he likes you? try talk to him, start smiling at him so he notices you, try chat to him abit. if you want him to know you like him, talk to people you know that would go and tell him,so like, call him hot, or say how cute he looks, so the word would get around. so then if he hears you're saying things, he might pop up ? or text? you facebook you? just remember what ever happens stay strong:')you're beautiful<3
-sorry for late replys:-(x
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Ig theres a guy yuo like and he likes yuo as a friend.............. What do i do?

- don't pressure him into liking you. Don't make it too obvious you like him, and don't bee too in his face. keep it casual, if he looks at you smile, if he talks to you, talk back. but don't scare him off by acting jumpy or weird.
- if you want him to find out, tell someone who you think would go tell him, or try get it spread around.
-be cool around him.
- act normal, and just relax.
-what ever happens, you're beautiful:)
- Don't let words bring you down either<3 remember that x

Ok hi again :) I took ur advice and confront my ex about him cheating on me he denied it ad by the end of the day he made up a story that every1started to believe , but I know the truth but I shouldn't and I can't tell him how I know :O nd everyone's is believing him cause he's so good at lyin HELP?

Hm, you're just going to have to let this go. eventually you're all going to grow up, and think this- let him keep his white little lie. Let him stir peoples brains in his twisted ways of lying. because in the end, lying will not get you anywhere.
- I hope he lives with the guilt and regret, of loosing someone so perfect like you:-) i bet!!
- Cheating, if he carries on, he will be found out.
- I hope he feels clever knowing people believe his side of the story, but at the end of the day, they don't really care, because some point, everyone will forget about it.
-there's no point going out of your way, just to prove him wrong, because when you have...proved your point and had ago at him, and he has got hate, you're only going to feel more sad and depressed knowing you and him left on a bad note. So i think you should leave it.
-but leave with your head held high x

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How do get into a relationship with a girl u like.

aw,
-You need to start talking to her. Take it slow. Don't rush it. Start off by just asking her how she is, how her day is, what's she up too, how's school, gossip and things like that. Let her gain your trust. Talk to her often, on text or facebook or in person? but don't annoy her. gradually start complimenting her, making her feel special, try make her smile. Then if it gets to the point were you like her that much, say to her something like, i think i like this special girl<3 and then ask her out, or ask her if she'd want to go out with you. if you need more advice, just ask x

How do I get the girl who I fancy to notice me and realise I fancy her

Okay.
You should try by making alot of eye contact with her, and if she looks smile! Try talking to her often,or abit... make sure you smile if she looks at you. and say nice things about her, to he friends or yours. so it gets around your opinions on her!

i really want to have sex but im a muslim teenager

If you follow your rules, very to the max, i think you should just wait...i'm not sure, i don't want your parents to be disappointed!

Do I have sex or not I'm 15

It's up to you. If you trust your partner enough to him not to spread it. 15, is a decent age, and it's not bad, so i therefore i'd say it's not a bad thing at 15,so don't worry.

i want to have sex. im just to self concious to do it with someone who i know and im close with. idk its weird i know

It's not weird at all. So many people feel the need to rush into sex, because the population of young people are increasing, loosing their virginity at such young ages.
-if this person, and you are in a relationship ? then i think the time will come. it will feel right. the closer+longer you're together, the easier it will get, don't rush it, let him make the first move.
-i felt this so much too,the exact same problem you've just said to me. it's such a scary thing sex, and doing it for the first time, but you have to not be embarrassed about it, everyone's beautiful.
if you find that guy, and you're close with him, by the time it gets to the level of sex, or when he is and you are ready,then you shouldn't feel self-conscious, he loves you for you?he would guide you through it, and make you feel like it, and it will come naturally. You don't have to be fully naked?you can just keep your bra on,and pants, until you're under a cover, so don't feel like you're selfconcious.
-Seriously don't fret about having sex with someone you know. because in time you might meet new people? but when you're in the position (stage)where you're going to have sex with someone, it will be natural.

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I used to have a boyfriend, (we're schoolmates) During our foundation week, My friends and I decided to sit infront of their booth, I looked at him for like 4 or 5 times, and I caught him looking at me for atleast, 3 times in a row. What does that mean?

Okay, maybe that day you looked really good? and that caught his attention!
maybe he saw you looking and he got conscious and he started looking lots to see if you were.
I advise ;next time you see him staring ;you smile? and if he likes you, he'd probably start talking to you more, and who knows if he'd take it further?

Sorry 'bout my 1st quest. :DDD My bestfriend and I used to like each other, but then, I somehow, kinda' betrayed him for chosing a guy over him, (that was 3 years ago) Now, I've realized that I still love him, but he doesn't talk to me anymore. He seemed to move on already, but my friends say that

Okay. Personally i think you should try start talking again? Or if you see him ( if you can) start smiling at him, so he notices, and therefore he could start speaking to you over text or whatever?.
He should be over it now, if that was 3 years ago, he should of moved on. So if you did telll him you liked him,(even tho you don't speak) he wouldn't mind to much, because he should of forgotten mostly, what happend.
If he did start being rude saying, you chose him over me. You could say things liek ''i was immature then''...''i didn't know what i was doing'' ''liking someone wasn't a serious thing then'' or just things that will make him keep on re-thinking of liking you again. maybe he does? Is he nice to you?? ...
i think you should try get back into contact again, build up your friendship again, and take it from there...try not to rush it x

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I can't tell the difference between a guy just being nice, and a guy flirting? Please help. /: xx

Okay so a guy flirting- if he's flirting he will look at you alot, and he will try gain your attention by,doing things that will make you notice him. If he's into you?Which is like, he makes it clear, that he thinks you're hot, so what i'm trying to say is, if he's always trying to talk to you, or chat with you, or he's always nice to you.
If he's mean to you? he's trying to make banter, so you have a jokey fight though, so don't always take him being mean to you too seriously.
If he's just being nice, he won't beg for much attention,he might of just been polite? so if it's a one off thing,or just occasionally i wouldn't think too much of it.

I used to be in a "Mutual Understanding" with my bestfriend, that was back, 3 Years ago, Now, I've realized that I still love him, but he no longer talk to me. (he just act like we're acquaintances) What can I do for our love for each other (or just friendship) will be like the way it used to be?

This is so confusing, could you please re-ask me, but make it more clear what you're talking about? sorry x

literally in love with your advice, you have given me 3 pieces of advice that no one else could give, thankyou x

You're so welcome:')! Always here for you! x

I'm 13 and today was my first time self harming.no one knows! not even my mum, my best friend, my boyfriend. I don't want to tell them because i don't want to explain the reasons, I really don't know what to do because what if people notice my arm, if they say stuff, and i already regret it :( help

Okay, i know self harm is such a powerful thing. and once you've done it once, you're going to be tempted to badly to do it again. but you can't. you need to resist it! I've suffered with self harm. You should start a diary? to express yours feelings, get your anger out. write a note and burn it in a home fire you have? just so the things you're harming over,you can get out. Listen to happy music. smelling good? can always make you feel better too?try putting some makeup on?like lip gloss? so you feel happier,and in a better mood, because your body is feeling fresh, and you're yet again, in a better mood.
I've struggled so much with self harm. but you need to know the dangers of it. You could cut into a vein?and kill yourself...also eventually the skin will come so much stronger?and grow back so tough,so it will be more painful. eventually if you carry on, it will scar your skin? and when you grow up, and become an adult, you're going to have to live with them, and explain to someone what your problem was, or kids? if you have kids, they're going to ask why mummy has sores, and it's going to be so upsetting for you.
If you know your best friend is the type NOT to tell anyone. then tell her. you will feel so much safer and secure, knowing you're not the only one who knows, and you will feel more comforted and you will be in a better mood knowing you're not keeping a secret? but even if you don't tell her, when your cuts have gone. the guilt will go dont worry x
remember you're beautiful x

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me&my boyf talk a lot over facebook&on the phone but he says nothing in person,if we meet up i'll say something &he'll reply with a one word answer,we haven't been going out for long but he is defiantly not a shy guy.we don't do anything that the cute couples do but he doesn't even make an effort:'/

I had one just like this! the EXACT SAME. Tbh, what i did, i waited for 2 weeks, and if nothing changed, i ended it. because it's too awkward, and it's not what i was looking for. After a week, it did improve, he got more touchy, but only by a tiny bit..he would hug me, without asking by text over night or something silly! So if he doesn't start making more effort, maybe it's because he feels like you're too good for him? (which is what my ex felt,when he told me)and now then i saw him around and hes buzzing and hyper? he might just be nervous atm, so just let him get sorted, wait another week? if nothing changes, tell him, that there's no connection between you or, you're betterr off as friends, because there's no chemistry x

i feel so sad for no reason. my friend today told me I'm not as pretty as he thought i was before, and its not usually something that would bother me but my mood has gotten really low. idk what to do

Okay, well. i get this all the time. Don't let that knock your confidence. maybe you have feelings for this guy? Just carry on, what you're doing, and don't care what he thinks. if he's your 'so called friend' he will not care what you look like now. He should like you for you. If he doesn't because of your looks? he's not a friend. Listen to happy music, or just do things that enjoy making you happy...take your mind off it.
If you're close with him, tell him that it has upset you, and he shouldn't be telling girls things like that, because it's upsetting, and makes you feel self-conscious..don't worry, i bet you're beautiful hun<3

Ok I'm very weird yes I admit it but I feel awkward with the people surrounding me all the time :( help me !

Okay - You should just have a diary or something, so you can express your feelings:')or a doodle page so you can be crazy to that! and when you are surrounded with people, you should just try concentrating on other things, rather than feeling awkward, like think of something funny in your head, and distract the fact people surround you. Or block them out, or sing in your head x

i want a boyfriend. i have not had one in like 6 years and now i think im about to get one im frigid what do i do? <3

You will be fine. The more the bonding and the better you get to know each other, the less awkward. the less awkward, the easier it will come. Everything will go in your stride, and it will all work out. Don't force yourself to do extreme things though. but if he goes to hold your hand, hold his. if he goes in for a kiss, kiss him. Just don't move away from him, just take it easy and breath..

Im 16 but i was 15 at the time and im getting called a slag,whore,prostitute,slut<3

Okay, - as long as you are true to yourself. You know who you are, and you remember that. You have to isolate yourself, from everybody, when they say it, or you hear it, don't react? because at the end of the day, reacting will only bring tears in the end. There's no point. You need to keep your head held high, but not cocky. You should also start a diary or something,so you can get rid of your anger that way,so you don't need to constantly lock it up. or starting a sport of some sport, the motivation of anger or sadness can really help you rid it<3

What do you do when your getting called every name under the sun because the lad you thaught you loved pressured you into doing things.... I have moved on and this happend a year ago but people are abusing me for this… what am i suppose to do?<3

Okay, so how old are you? and name a few names they're calling you please? Just so i can, give you more advice, that's more accurate for your age<3

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