I can imagine how you're feeling, and i feel horrid for you. but i think you should do it sooner rather than later, so as soon as possible would be best....Try doing it in person? therefore you can be there for him, when he reacts? so you know, he will be with you at the time, encase he tries doing anything? it maybe awkward, but i guess it's better than, texting him and having no reply, and worrying sick. - that's just an idea.
Idk, just try make sure he's there for you. ask a friend and as many people you can trust for advice, maybe even talking to a parent of some sort? or your own if you live with them ect, because parents are old and wise.
I think you should tell her that, fighting won't solve it, because clearly it will be a repeat of last time...
You need to look like you're not afraid if she walks near you, or by you, stand up, big, not being cocky, just hold your head high. don't cower or walk fast, walk slowly, or just a good pace, to show her you're not moving out her way so she can take charge. Make sure you don't tell other people you're scared. Tell people that, you've had an implant, so the word will get round to her, so she will think about it abit more.
Don't look at her in the eye. Stare directly in front of you. with a slight smile, not a smirk, just so you look happy, not sad. don't let her see you sad, because then she will automatically feel bigger and better.x
This is one of the most difficult questions i've had to answer. because suicidal, is a massive thing. I read this question last night, and had to think about it all day.
well. i suggest, you have to be honest with them, because the longer your relationship goes on, the bigger trust you will grow, and bond with them. You need to tell them, that you're thinking it's better if you were friends. If she asks why ? don't give her/him a reason. just tell them that you will be there for them still, and if they ever need you, you're only a text or inbox away....
Try not to move on, e.g go out, with the other person straight away, as that could upset her/him even more, they need time to get over the break up. but you need to be honest, or your bond is going to get serious, and when you do break up, the heart break will be bigger...so i hope this helps..if you need anymore advice or questions, just ask x
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Yeah, i totally agree, he does have a right to know. It's alright what you did, but just remember how the girl feels, as she may get upset if he tells her...if she feels threatened, but yes. it's fine, it should be okay with you telling him, just make sure you don't leave it awkward now:-) keep the conversation flowing, but not necessarily about the situation.
Well, you need to keep calm, and realize that, they're on anon? because they're too childish to say it in person, and they wouldn't want you knowing it was them. you can change your ask so people can't go on anon!, I'll tell you how if you ask another question.
You have to take it on the chin, like its a little sly rat, who has nothing better to do. everyone's beautiful and perfect in their own way. don't let it get to you.
Replying - You, could send things back like, ''are you happy, what you're doing right now, does it make you feel good?'' or... '' i hope you see, these remarks are pointless, and doing nothing'' or, ''that question made NO Difference in my life thanks'' . don't get cocky, because they will. If you want to know how to deactivate your account, send another question,and i'll tell you x
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Do little things every now and then, e.g. Ask him for his number, and ask him if he wants to hang-out over break. If you really want to send him a clear signal, touching is the clearest. Now I don't mean start necking him or something or doing something inappropriate, I mean try putting your hand over his hand. Though be sure to do your research beforehand. You don't want to send super clear signals if he has a girlfriend already.
Hope it helped, ask your friend to try get his attention and help you with him aswell<3
Okay seriously, i think you should talk to her. just say ask her if home is okay ? if she needs any help ?you many not talk, but you need to. it's the only way you're going to sort this out.
also the fact, you don't tell each other everything could be another reason why she's upset. rel-leaving your feelings to someone is the best way in the world. getting it out, that little thing, could mean the world to her. you NEED TO TALK TO HER. you need to ask her, if she needs any help!!! tell her, ''ive seen your tumblr, are you okay, i'm always here for you'' say something, to her.. because if she's in these thoughts she NEEDS SOMEONE THERE. it's always that one person, that can change suicidal thoughts x
Okay , i see. If he feels the same way strong enough, he would of dumped her by now..or maybe he might dump her soon, but don't rush him into everything.
It's fine that you've told him! he has a right to know, but yeah, i guess if your friend's happy you should leave her be. but if they DO BREAK UP. be sure not to spring on him straight after, leave it a while? so he's over her and she's over him. or hell could break loose x
Okay, i see, please may you say how old are you? so i can get a better and more understanding answer for youx
Okay. Suicidal is a massive thing, as you know. These days it's what's ruining and flooding all social net working sites, and this is why we made this page..If she does want to die..and you find that out suggest this:
You need to be there for her. Invite her round your house or something. show her how much people would care. A girl on my Facebook that's the most hated girl i've ever met, she uploaded a picture of her cutting. and within 10 mins? she got 2,000 likes. approx. there's so many people out there who care, she needs to realize that. The pain she feels if she does want to die? is the pain other people will feel, when she's gone. you need to write her a massive paragraph on how much you love her + other people do, how much she means to you,or even hand writing it , would mean the world. (IF YOU FIND OUT SHE DOES WANT TO DIE)
if she's doing it for likes, try thinking, do you know about any family problems she has? does she get alot of hate? does she have any anger managements, or problems...?
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In this, life is such a big thing. and when offers like this come up? you need to really think long and hard what to do. do your family support you with this? find out what people think ? (friends)
If this is what you really want, you need to do it. because it's a massive opportunity. Is it worth leaving everyone? but then if you do, you might not regret it.
If you don't go through with it? Is there anything else you have to fall back on to? like another job?I don't know..i'm abit scared of giving you too much advice, as this if your future, i hope you do what makes you happy x
I personally, think that you should talk to her, and tell her how upset you are, and how you feel...but most of all, you can't split up a couple, i guess if they are happy, you can't stop it. but let her know how you feel. it's not nice that she did that to you, but love is such a big thing, and it can overcome, anything x
Okay, well i think that's so sad, and i'm so sorry to hear that, but i don't want to give you bad advice. BUT if it was me, i'd say
'' I'm hearing things, and i don't know if they're true. but it got around you cheated on me? and if it's true...i'm just saying, we used to be in love, and i can't think why anyone would do that,there's no point in a relationship, if you're just going to cheat. if it's not true, then i'll ignore it'' something along them lines, as i don't want an argument, and to make you upset more!
You're more than welcome<3
Aw, sounds really cute :')! well.
I think , you need to keep building up your relationship as friends. a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship will never work, if your friendship hasn't got solid. well some can, but its better if you know them before you date. even if this guy is shy, when he feels you're close enough, i'm sure he will make the move:-)when he's ready and comfortable...he's probably just making sure he knows what he wants x
* If he wants to talk to you all the time.
* If he was acting like you're his friend but stopped doing embarrassing things in front of you,
* If you turn around and you catch him looking at you.
* If he starts acting nicer when you're around him.
* If he says "yes" to all the things you ask him to do.
* If he treats you differently than others.
* If he tries to sit next to you at work, in class, at lunch, or play on a team with you during Gym/Recess.
* If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh.
* If you catch him sneaking a glance at you and he quickly turns away when he realizes that you saw him,and you see him blush.
* If he acts immaturely around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting.
* If he seems to always want to hang out with you.
* If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you (e.g. when you touch him he might touch you back).
* If you ask him for a pencil and he gives it to you, then you try and give it back and he says to keep it, there is a huge chance he might like you but be careful, he may know that you like him and he might be playing with your emotions!
* If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles turn around slowly and smile back playfully.
* if when your talking and you say that you have to go, if he says nite cutie or nite sweetie, then that might mean he likes you. If he says he misses you then he might like you.
* If he tries to make you laugh.
* If he teases you.
I hope this helps a bit, I found this on a website and added a few, also, try boosting your confidence and getting your friends to make you seem more noticeable in front of guys.<3
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To be honest. You shouldn't let this slide? because that's not right. and you can't be letting him get away with things like that, because once it's once, then it could become more frequent. You should be put first, especially when it goes to his ex. I think you should, firstly text him and say '' why did you not see me:(i missed you?whilst you hung around with her:(?'' something like that. don't get into a fight though, i think you should just ask him why he never saw you.
Well then she sounds like she's not a true friend! You should really start putting your trust into someone who you know, who'd never do that to you. Stay strong, and don't let bitchy people get to you, because you will always end out on top. If it was over a year ago, he would of forgotten now, hey...its a new year, new happenings, start fresh x
Okay. If haven't told him yourself that you don't stalk him, you need to. because he should be grown up enough to believe what you say. by saying something along the line '' no, it's not true, i do not stalk you, i have better things to do.''' something like that!, i think its harsh your friend did that, and it's not right that she did, hopefully when she said it, it was jokey? so he didn't take it seriously? If you're under the age of 16? i wouldn't worry that much:-s because at the end of the day, he's a boy, and he will forget soon enough. he won't care much longer, he will get bored of this 'joke'. Don't let it get to you. If you need to get your anger out, write down on paper, all your anger, get it all out, write as many cursing words (swears) as you need to. that's if you use that language. and put it in a fire if your house has one. if not, rip it up, and put it into a bin, so it's not readable.
He won't hate you, you may think that, because you're worrying. and if it's a year ago now? he would of forgotten it anyway. it's a new year, leave it to start new..
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Okay. well to be honest, you can't stop their relationship, because they're together for a reason. but. if you're under 15, i can mostly say that it probably won't last forever, well i don't know?anyway.
You can still like him, but don't cross it to the point where you're being too flirty, because the girl would feel awful, and that's not what we want:-(. You need to keep your space. but still, liking him isn't a bad thing. You just have to keep your head high, there's not much i can say really, because if someone's happy, its best leaving them that way<3
First of all the person you had sex with violated your personal space, and even though at the time it may have seemed like a good idea, they should have respected the fact the you did not want to go any further. If the name calling gets any worse talk to the parent you are most comfortable with. I wouldn't suggest trying to laugh off the fact you are being called a whore. It is classed as bullying or even harassment. Tell a close friend, or relative who you trust a lot. If the defiantly can't help you feel the slightest bit better I advise telling a teacher or someone who can take action.
Hope this helped<3
Cutting...
do not, do this ever again. please,(cutting) it helps nothing. cutting will release pain in a way you feel you can't any other, but you can.
-Starting a diary is such a good idea. You can use it as a human. but you can have 100% trust in it?Write down your feelings on paper? what's upsetting you. and burn it.
Everyone's beautiful,and so are you. starving yourself?is the most painfullest, and SLOWEST way of loosing weight. It will take you ages to loose weight this way, so do not try it. You should try eating more healthy? or just eating things you don't normally.like one piece of fruit? at least then your brain knows its eating healthy? making you feel better about yourself. Even cut down on one un healthy thing you normally eat? or even doing some more sports. running and jogging is the best way to keep fit. you loose weight, but also get fitter.
washing. -It's so random, but washing and keeping clean and smelling nice can make you feel so much better about yourself, and maybe putting abit of lipstick ?just things to make you feel fresher and better about yourself.
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Parents leaving you- I'm so sorry to hear that,and i know how difficult it is. it's like there's someone missing?and i understand you won't ever get the other part of growing up which is having a dad.
But i can assure you this.
Best friends who you share everything with, is such a good thing to use as someone to go to instead of your mom, or there's always other solutions. if you feel like you need someone to talk to, write it down (your feelings)on paper and burn it, or start a diary, that's such a good way.
anyway. Stay strong for everyone, and all your friends. there's thousands of people out there who care about you, keep that in mind<3
if you do end up going into a group home, try your hardest to do your best, and just go with it. try make friends and if you have a diary it will make you feel more comfortable, asif it's a friend. because your diary will never be read. you can say as much as you want, as hurtful as you want relieve anything<3
hope this helps x
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Trust me, you don't want to be popular where will it get you in life? Okay wow so you'll be known and have more fake friends than stars in the sky. How will that help?
Don't ever attempt dieting without a doctor advising it, if you are worried about your weight you could maybe try snacking less, but never attempt something dangerous. If you get called fat a lot tell someone, e.g. and adult or tell a friend you think could help. All I'm saying is never drastically diet. If it is really upsetting you go to a doctor. I can honestly say I'd rather be slightly chubby than anorexic.
Hope I helped<3