Not everyone is going to understand, or be able to help you in a way you need it. Try talking to him first, and tell him what you need from him when it comes to this situation. Since he may not have any experience with this situation, you will need to help him and be clear about what you need.
When you want to tell your friends, do it when you feel ready and in a way you feel comfortable in. You could try saying something along the lines of telling them how longs you've been dealing with your problems and feelings, and tell them you are wanting to get better and would like their support. Going into detail about the situation may make them feel uncomfortable or nervous or overwhelmed. When they feel comfortable doing so, they may ask you questions about it, or they may not. Giving them time to process it, could help.
You should try to focus on that you are wanting to get better, because that's something people like to hear! And if they care about you, they might be worried for you but also proud that you're in the place to talk about it.
It's a big deal telling people what you're going through, and I'm proud you're wanting to tell your friends and also get better!
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