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Wow, thanks for taking all this time out to answer all of my questions lol You are the real deal RhemaJoy. So, what's next for you in relationships? Do u feel like you and your mate will have a marriage/ relationship ministry together? I'm sure the wisdom doesn't stop once he finds you.

Are you the same one who asked why I/m so hard to impress and about my reactions while with you? You asked all these questions?
Nothing is next. I'm all good.. I'm sure when or if he comes along, ministry in some way will be involved.

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What church do you go to? Are there any churches in the DMV you recommend?

I'm currently apart of the viewing audience of Elevation Church. I'm online majority of the time but I visit new churches from time to time. Ahhh, there are tons of churches. First Baptist Church of Glendarden, Spirit of Faith, Destiny Harvest, Life Church, DC Metro Church, Grace Covenant...just a few I'm more familiar with.

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Since you are turning everyone down lol, do you have any fine, saved sisters you would recommend for your male friends lol. No seriously. Do you match people up that you think would be a good match? Feel free to let your bro's in Christ know...of course checking with your sisters first 😄

Crackin' up. I'm not in the match-making business but I mean...If you ever see me and my girls out and you find one you're interested in, go for it. You might win! Lol.

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believe it or not most of not all your guy friends want to be in a relationship with you (or could see themselves with you). You should investigate why. I bet all they'll all name the same reasons, qualities, traits you carry. Would you do that, hit them up and ask what they see in you?

I hear you. I wouldn't hit them up and ask them because while I'm thoroughly flattered by what they see in me, I'm not interested in opening those doors and lines of communication with guys I only see as my friends. I treasure our friendships and I'd prefer to keep them that way; especially if I don't see myself with them.

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What was the most meaningful thing a guy has expressed to you?

Expressed? ahhhh, that's a tough one. Um.. I'd say it's when a guy once expressed to me that he was not going to date or pursue me -at least at the time- because he wasn't in a position to be what I needed in a man in order to sustain my wait. It was painful but super honest and I appreciated that protection.

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What do you say to a guy who says that God showed him that you are to be his wife? Is the guy supposed to wait for God to reveal that to you or make his move. (That "God said" is so common now says it seems)

"God said" can get you hemmed up! LOL. But no, honestly...
I'd be straight up; If heard the "ok" from God on it, I'm game. Of course with wisdom, counsel, time...all that good stuff. If I hear nothing from God, I'm not game.
The phrase "God said" is common, yes, but the conviction, truth and "God consent" behind it isn't very common. Many people say it out of emotion, a high on love of sorts, but don't really take the time out to seek God on whether it's a move of God or a move of well...themselves. A guy is most certainly supposed to wait on God, not really to reveal it to you as a woman but to him as a man and make the move when God says it's time to. I've been raised on the knowledge that it is the guy's role to initiate that sort of discussion but it should never be a surprise to the woman he is telling it to or pursuing. This goes into him waiting on God to make the move at the right time. He should let God deal with her and focus solely on what God wants and tells HIM to do. There's so much more to it...but I don't have the space. Lol.
I believe that when anyone tells you anything about what God said regarding YOUR life, it shouldn't be a surprise. God wouldn't tell my "to be" husband to share that with me and keep me out of the loop or without any ounce of expectation of that life change/message. It should be confirmation. In my opinion.

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What does the wait mean for you? Waiting to have have sex? Waiting to date? Waiting for???

I'm waiting for whatever I know is God. According to His Word, I am called to wait for sex. That's just sheer obedience. Because of that particular area of obedience, I've been given a clearer understanding of what it means to be intentional about life, period. I'm not here for casual flings to pass time because I'm a person who tends to genuinely "want" to care about someone I'm interested in. I can't let people go like that, I can't forget them so easily so what am I waiting for? I'm waiting for someone and something I won't HAVE to forget. According to His Word, I am also worth the time it takes to have the best and be the best version of myself daily. That requires time...it's requires waiting. Hope that answers the question.

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Why are you so hard to impress? I can't tell if you are interested in me. I don't get any reaction...except the few times I'm with you. It's different.

Hard to impress? I wouldn't say that. I'd say too many women are too "easy" to impress, thus making it look like I'm just out here expecting Gods to come at me. Lol I'm not hard to impress, I'm just pretty intentional about the messages I send to people and if I'm also interested, it'll usually be known outside of when I'm just with someone. But wait...when I'm with you? I can't think of any guys I'm usually with who get reactions out of me. Lol. Idk who this could be.

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when someone doesn't budget when asking them out does that mean they're not interested, they're scared, or they really are busy?

When someone doesn't "budge?" Ahhh, that more than likely means they're not interested. I mean sometimes they can be scared or pretty busy but I feel like if a person really cares, they'll make time and move any obstacle out of the way to say yes... Make sense?

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I need a females opinion on something? would you prefer to go on a date to get to know person and or get to know them through "talking"? this very confusing to me! and yes I aware every female is different!

Well, you can do both at the same time. Though talking can def. help with getting to know someone, it's deeper when you see them physically. You get a real feel for who she is. Her mannerisms... What she responds & doesn't respond to.

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If a man said you are his rib. How would you respond

I'd respond with a question.. Something like "why & what is it that I'm designed to help you with...?" The response to that question would determine a lot. A man is only as good as the God-given mission he completes or doesn't complete. If I'm his rib, I'd need to know how I'm supposed to fit into that. if he has no answer, I'm not his rib, I'm his hiding place. Not what I want to be.

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