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Id just like to direct this to that anon as well as anyone else it may concern:
Depression does not give a shit if you come from a good or bad home. Nor does anxiety. Crying, panic attacks, and the title of inspirational aren't things that are, for lack of a better word, reserved for people who have gone through hard times. Everyone deals with things differently. Every single person. You could be abused or you could have the nicest parents in the world and still have a mental illness. Depression, for example, is a chemical imbalance in ones brain. It is absolutely out of line to call someone an attention whore, even if someone is being stupid or whatever, it's not your problem. So leave it. Walk away. Don't go out of your way to make someone feel bad. Not cool, you have no idea what could be going on and you have no right to judge them.
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I would never date you with all those cuts on your arms

you know what? My scars don't just show people that I was suicidal and that I'm depressed, they show ME that I was strong enough to keep fighting at trying to beat my problems. They remind me that things get better at some point. Honestly, even if I had the chance to go back in time, I wouldn't change a thing. not because I want attention or anything, but because I now have this experience so I can have the chance to help people who are going through what I am. Depression brought me closer to my parents.
oh and, I would never date you anyways because you're a fucking asshole and I hope someday you understand that the things you say to someone will always affect them.
goodbye, you suck

Reasons behind ur tats?

Promise on my pinky: Erika and I are getting matching ones as a promise to stay best friends and to support each other
Deathly hallows on my hip: Harry potter was my childhood and I want a piece of it to stay with me forever
"I hope you dance" on my foot: dance is one of the things that kept me from killing myself. It got me out of my shell, helped my depression and let me forget about all the shit in my life. Dance saved me so I am going to dance forever

message to people who are suicidal?

Well darlings, life is a crazy roller coaster of ups and downs. Things will get really bad at some point or another but always remember that something good will happen soon to balance out all the bad. No matter what you think, there is always someone who cares. There's always someone who has your back. Someone who will stick by you when other people don't. Of course there will be people who are assholes but just kick them to the curb and forget about them. Remember, those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter and suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. If you ever feel like killing or harming yourself, send me a msg on Facebook or snapchat and I will be there to talk okay?

I'm 14 and I cut for the first time last night and I think I did it wrong can you tell me the safe way to do it?

well...
step 1: you don't
step 2: you pick up your fave book, turn on your fave TV show or movie. Go outside and run around even if its raining. Theres no safe way to self harm. Theres nothing safe about it because every time you hurt yourself, you're...well you're hurting yourself and thats not safe. you're 14. you're far too young to be worrying about life. You should be watching TV and doing homework and being happy. I was best friends with this 14 year old girl who is so troubled and I tried so hard to help her. I was even in the other room while she was drinking bleach once and I had no idea. I spent almost every waking minute fearing for her life and hoping she would come to school the next day. So if I can even convince or at least help convince someone to stop cutting, I would be thrilled. please, talk to people instead of shutting yourself away with a razor. honestly talking helps so much.

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