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আগের এন্সার পড়লে আত্মসচেতন মোটামুটি সবাই ক্রিঞ্জ খাবে।🐮মানুষের পার্স্পেক্টিভ পালটায়,বিচার ক্ষমতা আপগ্রেড করে সময়ের সাথে।আর মানুষ যা-ই করুক,সেইটাই তারা।কেউ যখন নিজে যা না তা প্রিটেন্ড করতে থাকে তখনও তা,একটা হিপো অর সামথিং লাইক দিস।আর আজকাল কেউই রিয়েল না,ফেইকিং জিনিসটা রক্তে মিশে গেছে ক্যান্সারের মতো

Well said!🔥👏
এখন আপনি নিজে আসলে কতটুকু true to yourself সেটাই ম্যাটার করে।

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You know nothing. How many parents have seen in your life? I didn’t say every one of them are like that, I said very few of them could really be hazardous. And what's the point of it all that you're saying they've done for our betterment when they are not meant to da that? You know nothing.

Of course I know nothing.I don't know you or what you've gone through to ask this question.I spoke in general.
Parents are not meant to be "hazardous".If they are then it's obviously wrong and you should seek help from someone who is capable to help you,preferably an adult.
And if you're an adult yourself and self dependent too,that's great.You should keep necessary distance from them,depending on the situation.

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+1 answer in: “It’s nothing like parents will be the best thing on earth. Parents could be asshole sometimes who makes your life like hell. And then what's point of having parents at all? And then how the kids find respect for them?”

It’s nothing like parents will be the best thing on earth. Parents could be asshole sometimes who makes your life like hell. And then what's point of having parents at all? And then how the kids find respect for them?

"What's the point of having parents at all"??!
They brought you up and gave you the social position you are now proud of.They brought you to this point of your life.They could've abandoned you when you were born.But they chose to feed you,gave you a place to call home and took upon all sorts of liability.They chose you,chose your happiness over themselves.You can never compensate for the pain and hardship they went and go through for your betterment.
They obviously are the best thing on earth for you. No one except them will think of your happiness so selflessly.
I agree that sometimes it may seem like they're making our life hell but it's only for our best interest.They want us to succeed and have a better life than they ever had. No parent ever taunts their children for their own need. They want us to be happy and taunting is their form of encouragement when they see we're not fulfilling the expectations they've set for us.Expectations they want to be fulfilled so that WE can be happy.
I'd suggest not to get angry at them,think thrice before saying anything to them.Think about their sacrifices for You.And always,Always remember they only want the best for you.
If you feel you're unable to fulfill their expectations or maybe they've way higher hopes than what you can actually maintain,do talk to them.Talking to parents is ..tough,but if you are convincing enough and can logically reason with them,I think it'd work.
Give things time to fix themselves,don't rush.

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I don't know why but people hates me, as a human I also want to be loved by people around. Is there anything I can do and not do to be loved?

Basically you have to be yourself,the best version of yourself in front of people.
People should love you the way You are.And if they don't, you'd find people who'll admire you in future InshAllah.
Don't indulge in backbiting,avoid arguments,always practice forgiveness and be kind to everyone.I think this should be enough.
Besides,spend more time with your family,practice self love,practice your religion whole heartedly.

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