Ask @TaerraSestoElemento:

Why and when a guy will lose his interest to talk to with the girl that he really close to before? I need explanation pleaseee

First, either you changed or she changed that might cause that.
Second, infatuation.
Third, you can't be honest anymore which you had secret that refused to share with her.
Forth, get offended or exclude.
Fifth, distracted by something unreal.

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topic of the day: cinta monyet

A poor boy was in love with a rich man’s daughter. Overcome with his love for the girl, the boy proposed to her. However, the rich girl derisively rejected him and said, “Your monthly salary is equivalent to my daily expenses. How do you expect me to marry someone like you? I can never love you so forget about me. Go find and marry someone else of your level.Of course, he was hurt, but he moved on with his life. Roughly 10 years later, they ran into each other accidentally in a shopping mall.
She immediately recognized the man and said:
“Hey, how are you? I’m now married to a very smart man, and his salary is $15,700 per month! Can you beat that?”
The man look visibly upset but before the man could respond, the lady’s wealthy husband returned.
“Sir? G-good afternoon! I see you’ve met my wife!”
The man replied:
“Good afternoon too, Mr…?”
“Mr. Carter, Sir!”
The husband then turned to his wife and said,
“Dear, I’d like you to meet my boss. He owns the $100 million company I work for!”
The man who had been rejected 10 years earlier stood and smiled. A few moments later he said:
I must go now. I wish you all the best for the future and it was lovely to see you both.
The lady stood flabbergasted and the pair stared at the man as he left the mall. She then turned to her husband and said:
THAT WAS YOUR BOSS?
The husband responded:
Yes, dear. He is a wonderful man but his life is quite a sad story. He once told me, the love of his life dumped him as he wasn’t earning enough money. Because of this he worked really hard and has turned himself into a multi-millionaire business man. But he couldn’t move on from the heartache and is still unmarried.
How lucky would that lady have been if she had married that man?
The lady looked in total shock and couldn’t even mutter a single word."
This only shows how we should not judge others' future with the things that they have right now. It is not a clear basis of what they can achieve in the future.

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Shared something taerra?

Sekitar minggu lepas aku berjalan-jalan di KL dan beberapa peristiwa yg bg aku sangat indah.
Aku terserempak dengan seorang stranger yg asalnya dari UK tinggal di Chelsea ( aku peminat BVB 09 [k tiada kaitan] ) merupkan seorang ibu kepada 3 orng anak lelaki yg beragama ISLAM .Tetapi ketika di dalam monorel itu ibu itu hnyalah bersama anak keduanya sahaja. Pada awalnya aku tidak expect akan anaknya,sebab sebelum itu aku banyak bertanyakan tentang hal di UK manakala dia bertanyakan beberapa perkara tentang Malaysia. Setelah itu maka tergerak lah hati aku untuk bertanyakan nama pada anaknya," Hey what's your name young boy ?" ,"My name is Isa and I am a Muslim " maka tersentap aku mendengarnya,mak dia menerangkan bahwa Abang sulungnya memeluk Islam,maka mengajak adik2nya termasuk mak ayah mereka,ibunya mengakui masih belum tergerak untuk memeluk tetapi dia yakin akan suatu hari nanti mungkin dia berpeluang.Aku bertanyakan kenapa begini?
Jawapan paling aku minat sebagai parent. "Kita sebagai parent bukannya mengongkong curiosity anak2 untuk mengetahui sesuatu mahupun perkara itu merbahaya,tetapi guide sahaja,perkara memelih adalah hak mereka kerana itu hidup mereka. Mereka salah memilih maka mereka akan belajar dari situ . Itu yg akan membuatkan mereka lebih cepat matang dan sedia hadapi hidup sebenar. Sekarang ini anak aku si Isa hendak tahu akan monorel maka aku menemaninya dan menerangkan apa yg mampu. Walaupun masih muda,tetapi anak kecillah patut kita perihati kerana terdapat bnyk pengajaran yg boleh belajar,paling penting never afraid to make mistakes which lead you to right thing. " maka dia pun keluar kerna sampai di destinasinya.

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Is there any movie that has changed your life or view on something? -n

PK by Amir Khan - how people used religion to gain money, popularity, fake facts, control people and divide it.
The Prestige by Christopher Nolan - When we discover our-self and realize how our idea disturb the balance for someone idea, we need to figure plans to save ourself. Being an original always trump ahead of the future. Then I realize that I didn't get any job because of my idealism of humanity.
Tomorrow land - We ignore the scientist but we seriously take serious what religious, business and politics people says and act. Because of that, earth was doomed. Scientist warned us but we keep saying the religious didn't say that and those. Scientist gave us the facts but political and business said is still okey and no need to worry. I changed my view. I trust the facts and the evidence more than religion, politics and business.
Pirates of the Caribbean series - I am a prep person. I need preparation. But Jack Sparrow taught me sometimes all we need are bravery and alert mind to improvise our plan. And lastly, trust our luck.
LOL is too many to be list and explain haha

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A serious question. How to be a responsible person in your life? How to stop running away from problems?

I don't know how to answer this directly. We can run the problems but we can't run forever. We can't outrun it. All we need it face it base on our creativity.
Talking about responsible. If we realize the consequences not working on responsible, then we might realize how important is to working on responsible.

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What is the most unforgettable experience that you have been through up until now?

The struggle to find a full-time job. More than 50+ interviews I've attended and I failed.
I gave up. I move on to a new place to find peace. And I try a job that I never wish for or even think of it, just for sake of living at least.
But the new job gave me more than money. Something that I never imagine I could have done it so well.
I get acknowledged by people around me like never before.

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How to trust people? Sincerely from someone with a dead serious trust issue

Start with yourself. Take yourself somewhere when you both can do deep talk. Give a present to yourself. Forgive yourself. Forgive others. Slowly...
Do not hate and do not generalize. Be open to anyone and keep low expectation. And never hang with your pre-judgement.

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Oh i see. ada pengalaman homeless at least 24 months? mind to share here ? ;)

LOL nak ringkaskan payah haha. Okey when I was form 3, krisis keluarga makin teruk. Masuk je form 4 after masuk sains muar, krisis keluarga meletup sehingga melibatkan keluarga atuk kedua2 belah pihak termasuk sanak saudara ibu dan ayah, Aftermath, ibu dan ayah umpama bawak diri mereka. Adik2 ada bapa saudara jaga meanwhile I tidak dibenarkn balik kampung either both side. Risau salah fhm. So I lost contact dgn both parent, dan mereka di kampung.
Everytime pulang bermalam, don't have home to go. So I kerja part-time di stesen minyak terdekat. Usually tidur rumah arwah bestfriend dan seorang kawan di Putrajaya. But kadang2 just lepak di pantai Melaka sewa chalet atau diri khemah. Bab ekonomi memang I tidak harap sekolah sbb malas nak lalui birokrasi nak mohon dan xnak cikgu2 tahu pasal I even member asrama. Kalau buka account bank ada duit, maka adalah. Sama ada ayah atau belas kasihan bapa saudara yg lain. Xkesahlah jumlah besar ke banyak. But tidak boleh bergantung pada satu sumber pendpt yg jenis on off. Kalau tidak ada maka tiada. Dan dari situ belajar cari duit melalui kitar semula. Paling best berjaya kumpul 2 tan kertas dapat bayaran RM1000.00.
Masa tu juga kesihatan on off sbb badan jenis sensetive. Emosi yg tidak stabil juga ganggu pelajaran. Otak pulak asyik fikir perkara-perkara luar kelas. Kenapa itu dan ini. Dari Top 50 terbaik ke Top 50 terbawah. Masa dapat top 50, tunggu someone dari family ambik report kad, but no one shown up. No matter how powerful the motivation can't never replace my depression and trauma.
Masa tu peneman MP4 dari adik dan buku2 favourite shaja.
Pernah tidur satu bumbung dengan warga vietnam, bangladesh, indonesia dan pakistan sebab masa tu kerja sebagai cleaner. Best actually kerja cleaner. Baru tahu rasa orang pandang rendah dan tidak respect.
Ada masa lain kerja jadi waiter di restauran. Best kerja dengan orang yg betul2 buat kerja dari bercakap jer. Pernah tidur tepi 7E11, tepi2 jalanan haha sebab cari kerja di KL. Lepas sebulan baru jumpa. Berbual dengan homeless di bandar KL. Tidak suka meminta-minta sedekah, itu umpama memperdagangkan hati.
Lepas SPM tu lah paling struggle sebab kene tunggu about 6 bulan sebelum masuk UTHM. Jadi buruh kasar pun pernah, bukan senang kerja bawah terik chaya matahari dengan nak angkut bahan2 binaan. Gaji memang best tapi jadi buruh kasar. Kalau pompuan dengar pun x laku beb cari awek haha. Masa itu tiada hp pun survive haha, just guna PSP sebagai penghubung atau cari kerja online.
Dari situ juga belajar banyak perkara yg sekolah, buku teks, cikgu, agamawan tidak ajar; Ilmu kehidupan dan Ilmu kemanusiaan.
Banyak jer lagu but poin2 utama dah share plus kene singkatkan sebab limit words

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What was the most painful moment of your life?

When I do have parent but I didn't feel love. They leave me on that time.
When I do have many friends but no one's which I can share my pain even understand me.
I got knowledges but no one's acknowledge me.
I want to be apart of them by efforts but they refuse to accept my efforts.
I want to be original but they define me as a fake.
I want to be someone who can contribute to them, but been put aside plus with unofficially.
I thought my friends here can help me but in the end, the bond I create with those in childhood memories are families that always wanted to help me.
The decision that I was eager to made is the worst I've ever made in my life by go to boarding school.
Damn it,I'm crying writing this down.

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