Marriage is a stereotype and was commonly used as a type of oppression to hold tight women, in every part of the world.
If you think carefully, what does a marriage offer to a woman?
And what does a man benefit from marrying a woman?

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Culture, notions and research, on the other hand, can help to better understand things around us and even ourselves and our priorities.

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Why would she have to give up on her studies to be genuinely loved or married?

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I think that "love" itself can have different meanings, but at the end of the day, we all live alone by ourselves.

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Love is an idealization of the other person, a chemical reaction in the brain, that eventually will disappear as soon as it has been satisfied.

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We all seek positive attention and we all want to mean more than what we are or decide to be.

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There are people so desperately in love with love itself that they do not even understand how much potential they might have to show.
So they stop being themselves because it is a lot easier to rush things than to support the hardships of constantly evolving in a better version of self version.

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Studies do remain and can offer many other different types of passions.

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Criticism, rationalism and self-determination eventually show you the true, shady, colours of what means to be alive.

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There is more objectiveness in a person who can think with a brain than in one who is blinded by those same chemical reactions we call "love".

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Thinking with the heart is hard yet impulsive and impulsivity is not always good in the long run.

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And, by the way, if a person has to restrict another one to show them love, then, in my opinion, that is not love, but moral blackmailing.

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So, what should they do? Maybe they can avoid marriage until she completes her studies and he could support her and wait for a better moment to settle down.

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This is a compromise and is maybe the most rational way leading to longlasting relationships.

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