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I know I know but I just cant and when I do I get triggered by every thing its horrible

But you give up because you're not very determined in quitting. Next time you stop whenever you have the urge to do it just do something that can take your mind off of it completely. Here's 62 ways http://ask.fm/Teensupport365/answer/38683561958 (Owen)

Does smashing your head,making scratches on you skin,hitting you self of walls all on purpose count as self harm?

Yeah (Owen)

its not like I don't want ive tried so many times and I just cant I know I will at some point I just don't think I can at this moment in time

But the problem is because you've been doing it for so long if you stop then you're gonna be urging to do it again. The longer you wait the harder it will be to stop (Owen)

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well at the moment im not very determined to stop so looks like its not gonna happen any time soom

As much as i urge you to stop, it's entirely your choice whether you do or not (Owen)

yeah I tried but its hard after 4 years of bruising your body cutting and punching things

Yeah but it all depends on how determined you are to stop. Ever heard the phrase "anything is possible if you put you mind to it" it works with anything (Owen)

well it most likely will be, doubt it tho I only cut the top of my arms and the bottom not like my wrist but yeah

It's still bad that you're self harming though, have you ever considered stopping at some point? (Owen)

well they are involved they don't want me to leave because of it but im going to college hopefully, and I know nosey gits and well its going to happen sooner or later

Yeah it's gonna happen at some point but shouldn't be from anything self inflicted (Owen)

well I have no choice teachers want me to stay on at school because they are really worried about it, and I know its not helping, but what can I do if they wont listen? idk good let it kill me haha

Ah I hated school, always trying to get involved in your personal life. And that's not a good thing to say (that last bit) (Owen)

I know they are crap the first woman I seen kept asking to look at my cuts and scars I was like fuck off now!! and then walked out and refused to see her and I don't want it sorting im not ready but people are pushing me to see them

The worst thing you could do is to be pushed into doing it, do it when you're ready to. They're only pushing you because they're worried about you because if self harming gets too serious it could even kill you (Owen)

I don't like the either>:( they annoy me like fuck, and well she doesn't know ive self harmed a lot over the past week nearly every day and I came close to trying to attempt again if she knew that could she get me sectioned im scared haha :(

I don't like to say that they're useless because they've helped a lot of people but yeah.. they're pretty useless and I would advise to be open with your nurse about these issues and you would be open with these if you really wanted to get help for these, being sectioned could change the issues in your life massively and if you want these issues to stop, be open with her (Owen)

but I have to see CAMHS they aren't helping, ive tried to commit suicide before, could she if she wanted to get me sectioned?

I personally don't like CAHMS. But as a nurse (depending on the severity of it) which suicide is pretty severe she can section you to someone who would try and help you better (Owen)

ive tried to kill myself and got found got sent to hospital now im bassiclly traped have no life and ive screwed up everything:'(

Why did you try to commit suicide duck? (Owen)

I dont think i am over my boyfriend even though it has been months like when i see his name or hear it i cringe and feel broken i dont know though becuase why should i care even when he doesnt even anymore well i dont think so anyway

Well breakups are usually hard on both sides of it but you must know that your friends and we are here to help you and we will help you to try and forget about what happened (Owen)

basically I told my school nurse I cant get my mind of self harm and suicide, no matter what ive tried I always think about it, I told her last week and she told me I could go see her if I wanted but I didn't go, could she get me sectioned or something because I told her I cant take my mind off?

Okay in certain situations professional help is the only answer for dealing with this types of situations, it's the best thing to do. Words, sentences and paragraphs won't help you if it's in your mind 24/7, the problem is in your mind so somebody that's trained to get this out of you and your mind is the only real answer to help you. (Owen)

Lots of people have been saying that self harming is attention seeking, stupid, pointless, disgusting ect and it's making me feel really bad because one of the people who said it knows that i have before and it's making me feek kind of sick

Just ignore them, we all do things in that we regret but as soon as we accept what happened and what we done. Then we can finally just accept that this happened and once we've accepted it, it shouldn't affect you emotionally anymore. Just ignore what the say and keep smiling. (Owen)

I asked a question a few days ago about me telling the school nurse I self harm and asking what she would do and could she get me sectioned because of suicide too can someone please answer the question?

I'm sorry we don't have the question in our question box, could you resend it please? I'm unsure of what happened to it (Owen)

~new self harmer after a year reply~ well my mum hates me, i was stressed from exams, i feel like im failing in everything, and i just generally feel awful

Well, I'm sure your mum doesn't hate you, she's your mother after all her love for you is unconditional. I understand that exams can be pretty stressful but all you need to do is just relax, self harming is not the answer for it. Even if you are failing them, you can just easily retake them and get the wanted grade. And know that no matter how you feel we are here to talk to and to help you if you ever need us but you did well quitting for 1 year but everytime you're feeling stressed, rather than self harming just stop what you're doing and try and find a way to calm yourself down, but if the urge to cut is too strong then here's a few ways to help you to not do it! :) http://ask.fm/Teensupport365/answer/38683561958 (Owen)

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So I've started self harming again after a year of not doing it and now I don't know what to do :'( help me pleaseeeee

Well, what set you off? What made you want to self harm again? (Owen)

I'm so angry right now...so hurt, upset and angry..I'm scared about what I'm going to do :(

Why? What's happened to you? (Owen)

I am 13, can i date a 16 yr old

Of course! You can date whoever you want to but because of the age itself you two must refrain from doing anything "sexual" because the other person could get into a LOT of trouble for it (Owen)

(2)I don't want to lose him and I don't want him to think I have gone off him.. I dunno what to do. Is there a way I can get sexually attached to him again? Or what will I do.. I possibly cannot stand life without him ..

It could just be that you're not ready to do anything sexually yet. He should understand and won't think you're going off him. Just wait for a while and you might get more and more sexually attracted to him as time goes on -Tai

(1)Okay so here's the thing- I'm back with my boyfriend and I love to to bits, words cannot describe I litterly cannot live without him, I am physically and emotionally attached to him a lot, but I am not sexually attached to him, I wanna be but I don't feel like I am anymore. What do I do?:/

^^

I will be turning 14 soon, i am a girl, and i would like a party!! I really dont know what i want to be honest..... Big or small party or sleepover..... I dont really have muh of a budget (it has to be quite reasonable) and my birthday is at the end of august!?! Pleassseeee hellppppppppppp

Have a sleepover! You won't have to pay for a venue or anything so you can spend the money you do have on films and snacks -Tai

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