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im on effexor. its helped me in regards to my anxiety, which escalated to the point of almost incapacitating me several months ago. no help with my ocd. and im not trying to cure myself of my ed. at this point just trying to imagine a life without it is impossible and scary. i dont think id allow it

Hm, I haven't heard of it. But it's an antidepressant, so no wonder. I've helped myself with my OCD, and suppressed my eating disorder when it was at its worst. I get too tired of living with that stuff to let it continue to the same degree. I know I am often anxious, but I have a hard time identifying that I am. It's strange. I wonder how you can become more comfortable with change....
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but do you have sauce on the spaghetti? sorry people use spaghetti as a reference for a complete dish but to me its just a shape of pasta, one of hundreds. i can have spaghetti countless ways so just curious. i know typically in america its tomato type sauce though.

Yeah, tomato sauce with meat in it. Some people eat it without meat, or with different sauce. I only really eat it one way.
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what is your ethnic background?

I do not have an interesting background. I am not very familiar with it, actually, because it serves no particular relevance to my life. I know I have some Irish blood, as well as some Native American blood, but these are somewhat distant things. You could not determine either of them from my appearance, I mean.

what does your intuition tell you about me so far?

Well, I'm not in the mood to give a major analysis on anyone right now, but I'll try to give an analysis, nonetheless.
You seem like the type of person to have intense and long-lived obsessions. People can often be separated into obsession length groups. It indicates the use of Si on your part. Based on your use of Si, I presume you are the sentimental type. You appreciate practicality and store many facts and bits of information. Kind of like a walking encyclopedia, that type of person. You have strong opinions on things and make objective decisions. You have high standards in life. You value personal space and solitude. You are serious and responsible, and you honor promises. You have great concentration and are a reliable friend. You are cautious and appear calm during crises. You are very detail-oriented, perhaps even stubborn. You can be perceived as cold by others, as well as neglectful, and must explicitly express your feelings, otherwise they will not understand. You attach special value to past experiences, and may recount the same story multiple times. You tend to be nostalgic and can recall things in vidid detail, despite how long ago they happened. You can relive past experiences not only for the sake of nostalgia but for fact-checking purposes. You are always being reminded of things--"Oh, that dog is similar to one I had in the past!" You may often have a confused yet resolute expression. There is a dull feeling about your eyes, because you are lost in thought much of the time, not placing a particular focus on your environment. Your internal world is most immersive. You have a steady stare. It may seem as if you are often scowling. Your head makes unusual movements when you speak--your neck may jerk backward or forward. There is thus a certain sway to your body.
But if I got the Si part wrong, this whole thing could be wrong... anyway, it is an analysis based on an individual function. There are others to take into account.

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ive seen the MBTI discussion on your page. its not something ive invested much thought into but i did take a test once a while back and more recently on halloween it seems lol. have the email result i can share and it was “The Advocate” (INFJ-T)

Yeah, you must've used the unreliable 16Personalities site. The whole -T and -A thing is nonexistent in actual MBTI. That awful site gives the INFJ result out like Halloween candy, but in reality few people are INFJs. I would not really recommend taking any MBTI tests online, just reading about the functions. Tests always claim I'm an INTJ or ISTJ, but I'm an ISFP, so.
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for one to believe "everyone will disappoint me" who is the faulty party? is the believer? (their expectations are too high) or is it the collective "everyone" (people are just not built to be as reliable, solid, and vigorous as our believer is)?

Hm, I'd say both are at fault, to an extent. It's unrealistic to believe everyone will disappoint you. It's rather egocentric to assume everyone will betray you, everyone will lie to you, etc. There are many honest and loyal people out there, and it is unfair to group them in with everyone else. You become very close-minded, assuming everyone is out to get you. And that you are important enough for them to WANT to betray you and such. I wouldn't say their expectations are high, unless the disappointment concerns something minuscule. They are just delusional, in the case of disappointment meaning betrayal. But yes, sometimes people's expectations are too high, and anyone who does not meet/exceed those expectations is disappointing. Other people are at fault for disappointing this person in the past, certainly. That is assuming the disappointment was realistic.
It's hard to think of an example... but let's say you make a friend in class, and you ask them to give you the homework answers, then they refuse. That's a disappointment. You make another friend, and they, too, refuse to give you the homework answers. That's another disappointment. You adopt the belief that everyone will disappoint you and not give you the answers. In this case, you are expecting people to help you get away with not doing the homework. It isn't their fault for making you do the work, yourself. It's your fault for not doing it.

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sociopath, kitten videos, ect. i went through a phase like u did where i sought out the most graphic things in order to dull my senses. to rid myself of emotion, to kill it in order to harden my soul so to speak so events cannot penetrate its armor. so i understand. i believe im very empathetic tho

I still kind of do that, admittedly. Not with animal cruelty, though. But my extreme fetishes never went away. I just entertain them less often. Yeah, it makes you feel indestructible, and like nothing can bother you. I'm still quite desensitized compared to other people. Me, too.
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empathy and being overwhelmed, extremes. yes i can imagine. its easy for ocd people to be 100 or nothing. no moderation. thats how i am. you want to do it ALL to the point of insanity or do nothing. it really is so mentally exhausting. a hard life indeed.

Yes, if it's not one thing, it's another. I went from being very focused on cleanliness to giving up on it altogether. Not personal hygiene, though, I've always kept up with that. I shower every night. I'm trying to pursue balance in life, but it's hard.
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ocd and control. yes ed's are 100% control. its putting a tangilbe aspect on your life. a number you can see change *weight or your size. when so many aspects of your life feel so scary and out of your control the feeling of SOMETHING you can change is just so addicting and ensnaring.

I think treatment should focus more on the OCD aspect than the eating problem itself. Eating disorders can be difficult to comprehend, but OCD is less so. You could likely go from trying to control one thing to another, I imagine.
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with ocd alarm clock and prisons. yes control or the sense of it is just an illusion. ofc we actually have none. anything can happen to us at any given moment and there is nothing we can do but deal. but the FEELING, the DESIRE to TRY to control our lives perfectly is just so irresistible.

Yes, especially if you are unstable. You seek some sort of control to maintain your sanity. But it is also important to let go and realize that some things are simply out of our hands.
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what do you like to read online that steals your attention?

Hm... often very random things. I like to read about birds, MBTI, certain games, etc. Those are within interests. The other day I found myself reading about ringworm, and then the tapeworm diet. Some other random things I've read about--McKamey Manor, how common different birthdays are, comas.
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what specifically initially made you empathize with your lover? how was your empathy received?

I do not remember... it was something about her life story. I do not remember that, either. ;;; But I hope she felt relieved that someone cared.
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How much sun have you been getting recently where you live? I just found out that we've only gotten one hour of sun in total during December so far. We've been living in a constant gray basically during the few hours when it isn't pitch black 🙃🌫 Swedish winter sure is fun.... 😂

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Pretty much none (personally), because I hardly go outside. As for how long the sun shines each day, well, it goes down around 5:00 PM. Not sure when it returns, because I'm asleep by then, lol.
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what are some recent things that you have done out of your comfort zone? how did it go?

Hm... last night I told someone I would read their writing. And as you know, I hate reading people's writing, so I consider this stepping out of my comfort zone. Their story isn't very bad so far, so it's alright. I also tried ramen that was even spicier than my usual spicy ramen. It was delicious, but still too spicy for me.
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what is your mother's disease?

Small fiber neuropathy. She says she has another disease, too, but I'm not sure what it is.

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